"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Explosive gains and a quick comment!

New2Town

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Hey all,

I recently moved to a new location (December) and began lifting steadily once again. I really didn't lift weights (free weights) for the three months before hand and just stuck to the machines, since that's all my apartment complex had. My weight dropped a bit since I was running a lot and training for a half-marathon. I joined a gym once I moved and I had some great results. The only major change in my diet was adding protein shakes before and after I lifted. Before was just a scoop of whey and water and after was 2 eggs + 2 scoops + water (blended).

I measured my weight, chest and arms in January and then again in March. Here's what I got:

January 18
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Weight - 164 lbs
Chest - 39"
Upper Arms - 12.5"


March 18
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Weight - 174 lbs
Chest - 42"
Upper Arms - 13.5"


With my most recent check on a scale, I am up to 178 lbs, which means I gained 14 since January. I will post my actual routine later.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Congrats mate. When you first start training properly your bodyweight goes way up really quickly, some muscle, some water+food bloat+fat. You're doing really well, especially to gain an inch on your arms. Keep up the good work.

Post diet and routine as well bud. Take it easy,

shaun
 

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I've worked out before a lot. I ran cross-country in college and I lifted three days a week during the season and then four during the off-season. I am not "new" to working out, if my post had that come across. My "running weight" was around 168 and then I lost about four pounds when I moved and couldn't lift too much. So, I mean, I am four months into my new routine, but it's not like I'm new to lifting. I'm 6'2. My body fat during cross-country was around 8.5 %.
 

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Yeah, fair enough, but in some people's books you're a beginner until you're lifting reasonable weights. I mean, there's guys at my gym who have been going there for like 5 years, yet they're lifting barely more than me. They're beginners even tho they've been doing it for ages :)

but yeah, I didn't realise you weren't really new. Awesome gains anyway mate. Definitely get your info posted.
 

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Here's an example of the workouts I do. Monday is legs, Tuesday is chest, Wednesday is shoulders, Thursday is back and Friday is arms. Yes, I work out five times a week, but it's well within my limit. All of these weights are in pounds.

Tuesday - Chest
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Flat Bench - 8 X 165, 6 X 215, 6 X 235
Decline Bench - 10 X 135 (very slow), 10 X 185, 8 X 225, 4 X 275
Incline Bench - 12 X 115, 10 X 135, 6 X 155

Wednesday - Shoulders
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Dumbbell Press - 10 X 40, 10 X 45, 8 X 55
Military Press - 10 X 95, 8 X 115, 6 X 135
Hang Cleans - 10 X 65, 8 X 75, 6 X 95
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Friday - Arms
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Reverse Tricep Pulldowns - 10 X 40, 10 X 50, 6 X 60
Seated Tricep Extenders - 10 X 100, 10 X 160, 8 X 180
DB Bicep Curls - 10 X 25, 10 X 30, 6 X 35
EZ Curl Bar - 10 X 75, 15 X 55, 8 X 85, 12 X 55
 

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Wednesday - Shoulders
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Weighted arm stretches with 10 lbs

Military Press - 10 X 115, 8 X 135
DB Shoulder Press - 12 X 35, 10 X 45, 8 X 55
Iso Shoulder Lateral Press - 10 X 55, 8 X 65, 6 X 75
DB Lat Raises - 10 X 15, 8 X 20
 

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Nice routine for those bodyparts mate but for a complete physique you need to train back and legs as well, they make up most of your muscle mass. I'd also consider adding in Bent Over Laterals for your Rear Delts/Traps on Shoulder day. All the best.

MM
 

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MM,

I do train back, here's a workout I did a few weeks ago:


Thursday - Back
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Iso Lateral Pull Backs - 10 X 90, 10 X 125, 6 X 145
Seated Row - 10 X 140, 8 X 160, 6 X 180
Lat Pull Down - 8 X 140, 8 X 140, 6 X 160
Reverse DB Fly - 10 X 10, 8 X 12.5, 6 X 15



I do legs as well, but it's mainly lunges and such since I am a runner and a biker.
 
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