"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Explosive gains and a quick comment!

New2Town

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Hey all,

I recently moved to a new location (December) and began lifting steadily once again. I really didn't lift weights (free weights) for the three months before hand and just stuck to the machines, since that's all my apartment complex had. My weight dropped a bit since I was running a lot and training for a half-marathon. I joined a gym once I moved and I had some great results. The only major change in my diet was adding protein shakes before and after I lifted. Before was just a scoop of whey and water and after was 2 eggs + 2 scoops + water (blended).

I measured my weight, chest and arms in January and then again in March. Here's what I got:

January 18
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Weight - 164 lbs
Chest - 39"
Upper Arms - 12.5"


March 18
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Weight - 174 lbs
Chest - 42"
Upper Arms - 13.5"


With my most recent check on a scale, I am up to 178 lbs, which means I gained 14 since January. I will post my actual routine later.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Congrats mate. When you first start training properly your bodyweight goes way up really quickly, some muscle, some water+food bloat+fat. You're doing really well, especially to gain an inch on your arms. Keep up the good work.

Post diet and routine as well bud. Take it easy,

shaun
 

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I've worked out before a lot. I ran cross-country in college and I lifted three days a week during the season and then four during the off-season. I am not "new" to working out, if my post had that come across. My "running weight" was around 168 and then I lost about four pounds when I moved and couldn't lift too much. So, I mean, I am four months into my new routine, but it's not like I'm new to lifting. I'm 6'2. My body fat during cross-country was around 8.5 %.
 

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Yeah, fair enough, but in some people's books you're a beginner until you're lifting reasonable weights. I mean, there's guys at my gym who have been going there for like 5 years, yet they're lifting barely more than me. They're beginners even tho they've been doing it for ages :)

but yeah, I didn't realise you weren't really new. Awesome gains anyway mate. Definitely get your info posted.
 

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Here's an example of the workouts I do. Monday is legs, Tuesday is chest, Wednesday is shoulders, Thursday is back and Friday is arms. Yes, I work out five times a week, but it's well within my limit. All of these weights are in pounds.

Tuesday - Chest
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Flat Bench - 8 X 165, 6 X 215, 6 X 235
Decline Bench - 10 X 135 (very slow), 10 X 185, 8 X 225, 4 X 275
Incline Bench - 12 X 115, 10 X 135, 6 X 155

Wednesday - Shoulders
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Dumbbell Press - 10 X 40, 10 X 45, 8 X 55
Military Press - 10 X 95, 8 X 115, 6 X 135
Hang Cleans - 10 X 65, 8 X 75, 6 X 95
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Friday - Arms
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Reverse Tricep Pulldowns - 10 X 40, 10 X 50, 6 X 60
Seated Tricep Extenders - 10 X 100, 10 X 160, 8 X 180
DB Bicep Curls - 10 X 25, 10 X 30, 6 X 35
EZ Curl Bar - 10 X 75, 15 X 55, 8 X 85, 12 X 55
 

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Wednesday - Shoulders
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Weighted arm stretches with 10 lbs

Military Press - 10 X 115, 8 X 135
DB Shoulder Press - 12 X 35, 10 X 45, 8 X 55
Iso Shoulder Lateral Press - 10 X 55, 8 X 65, 6 X 75
DB Lat Raises - 10 X 15, 8 X 20
 

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Nice routine for those bodyparts mate but for a complete physique you need to train back and legs as well, they make up most of your muscle mass. I'd also consider adding in Bent Over Laterals for your Rear Delts/Traps on Shoulder day. All the best.

MM
 

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MM,

I do train back, here's a workout I did a few weeks ago:


Thursday - Back
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Iso Lateral Pull Backs - 10 X 90, 10 X 125, 6 X 145
Seated Row - 10 X 140, 8 X 160, 6 X 180
Lat Pull Down - 8 X 140, 8 X 140, 6 X 160
Reverse DB Fly - 10 X 10, 8 X 12.5, 6 X 15



I do legs as well, but it's mainly lunges and such since I am a runner and a biker.
 
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