Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Explanation of a difference between males and females

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Any guy who is a 4 on a scale of 1-10 would settle for a an HB7+.

Conversely, any girl who is an HB 4 will not necessarily show interest to a guy who is a 7+ even after this guy approaches.

I once approached two fat girls who were HB 3s, and I was flat out rejected. This was done just as an experiment.

A few times I have approached HB4s and HB5s, and was given disinterest. In fact almost everytime.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by static
Any guy who is a 4 on a scale of 1-10 would settle for a an HB7+.

Conversely, any girl who is an HB 4 will not necessarily show interest to a guy who is a 7+ even after this guy approaches.

I once approached two fat girls who were HB 3s, and I was flat out rejected. This was done just as an experiment.

A few times I have approached HB4s and HB5s, and was given disinterest. In fact almost everytime.
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MEANWHILE...in the minds of the fat/ugly girls....

"WOW! He's totally cute! Why is he talking to me? He can have any girl in the place...OH...he wants to get laid and figures I'll give it up quick. Never mind!
 
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It doesn't make sense at all that a girl would reject a guy just because she thinks he is out of her league. How insecure can a person possibly be?
 
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are u a 1 or somethin? cuz I heard 2's or above could land a fat chick. just askin.
 
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maybe it has to do with the fact that they can sense you are not genuine.

If you approach an HB9, it doesn't matter how hard you try to hide the fact you like her, it will probably show. She will know that you like her and despertly try to get into her pants and thus you will fail.

when you approach the 3's you didn't show any excitment or nothing and Its easier to detect when someone is faking it. The higher the level of beauty that more genuine your intrest will be.

I suspect you probably do well with HB 6-7 because you got both the excitment genuine quality but you are not gaga over them like 8-9.

work on being friendly to everyone and treat everyone the SAME no matter if she is a 3 or a 9, and people will believe your intentions are genuine.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No bro , 4's just lack the confidence to represent their sh!t correctly and so they come off as rejecting you.
8's are actually less work.
 
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Beside guy, why are you experimenting on ugly chicks??? it will hurt your game!! no good will come out of this because in your mind it will send a message that if an ugly girl rejects me, then why would a hottie accept me??

If you are an NBA player and you are a 3 point beyond the Arch expert why would you go underneath the basket and score? don't do that.
 
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