“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Expierences of going after girls with bf's

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Any General thoughts or expierences you guys have that you want to share?

I personally am thinking about it, any advice?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Andromax

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Generally not cool to long c0ck... especially if you know the guy.


But as they say, all is cool in love and war...


And, "its easier to steal someone elses girlfriend than to keep your own."

Basically same rules would apply as if she were single in terms of how you would act around her.

I personally shy away from chicks with BF, because, even if I succeeded in getting her, I would still think of her lack of loyalty as a red flag. For me it is a catch 22.

Anyways, don't spend too much time on it, but I guess it can be fun if you haven't had that experience.

Live and learn. Do what you must, you will anyways.

Andromax
 

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I think pursuing a girl that has a b/f is a total waste of time. Why bother when there are so many good looking single girls out there? Besides, even if you do manage to get to steal one from her man, what makes you think she won't do the same to you?

Like many other guys, I learned through experience. I went after one my first semester in college who had a b/f. At first I didn't even know she was taken because she'd flirt with me a lot, but later I realized she was probably just using me to entertain herself while her b/f was away back home.

Trying to steal another's girl is low IMO. I'm sure you wouldn't want that to happen to you with a girl you really loved.
 

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I'm beginning to feel that all the GOOD girls (attractive, nice) are already taken. After all, if they're so great, why in the world would they be single?
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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yeah, I've noticed that most good girls are now taken, which doesn't leave many options.

The older one gets the more likely it is that women that rate 7/10 or better are going to be taken. I'm 19 now and most college girls around my age (18-22ish) are taken if they look good. The only single ones (who coincidentally seem to like me the most) are ones who are overweight by enough to make them unattractive.

I think I would have no problem stealing someone else's gf, though loyalty may become an issue. I might have my doubts then, I guess, but its better than being alone or with someone I have no or little attraction too. Who knows how things work out anyway, maybe her relationship is already on the rocks or maybe you can wait them out and see.

It's not good to just discount them right away cause they're taken at the moment without finding out how serious it is first and whether or not you can wait them out or something.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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depends on the TYPE of girl.

If I meet a girl that is in a relationship, and I think she is LTR material, I will leave her alone, or just remain strictly friends with no sexual interest.

However, if I get the impression that she is a freak and happends ot be taken, I could care less.
 

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I agree its catch 22. However its surprising how many girls are with there bf arent happy with them. I read somewhere that 60% of women in relationships are happy with there fella.

I kinda dated a girl in work that was living with her bf. She used to txt me all the time and we used to chat alot in work. I made the mistake of slagging off her bf for being a losser with no ambition (yeah ... i know now) and things kinda went down hill from there. Also she always said that she felt bad about the closeness of our relationship and felt that she was going behind his back.

My advice - if she is giving you a high IL then go for it, bit it needs very sensitive handling!
 
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