"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Experts please help NYE BIG Problem

tennisbuck12

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Hello,

I've had a date lined up with a lady for a week now for NYE but I've been visiting my parents and have to go back to the city i live in. No bigie. She sent me a text last night that said if coming back is a big problem, my friend has invited me to a house party and we can get together soon. Should I just cancel
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Maximus Rex

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Why are you arranging dates a week in advance?

Why are you arranging dates with random chicks on New Year's Eve? New Year's Eve reserved for LTRs.

Is English your first language?

If coming back to the city that you live in is a problem "what?". That was an incomplete thought and you didn't finish the sentence.

If you knew that you were going to be out of town, why did you arrange a date?
 

tennisbuck12

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I was going to come back to the town i live. It's only 1 hour away. She asked me to be her date for NYE actually.
 
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