Expert Don's needed.

[Ilovemesomeme]

I got myself in a situation I am not used to. My girlfriend broke my heart last week, but I decided I am not going to be in self-pity, and move on. I actually have 2 women interested in me. One is a hot Asian co-worker, and the other is Spanish chick I met on line. It seems like they are interested. To be honest I am not used to juggling 2 women. Here is the situation. I have a band that is playing next Friday. They both know about my band, and if they go to the website they will see we are playing next Friday. The thing that is bad is they both live close to where my band is playing, so there is a chance they both may come to the show.

First of all I don't know who to invite, and what do I do if they both show up. I mean it would probably be best that I don't talk about the band with them, and then invite one of them. I don't know, like I said I am not use to this. Any advice would be welcome.

 

[oakraiderz2]

If you invite one and they both show youll be more obligated to talk to the one you invited. If they both show up without being invited you can treat the like you would treat any other girl. Talk to other girls in the place as if you know them and you should be fine.

 

[Desdinova]

I've been in this situation before.

If they both show up, give both of them equal attention. You'll have a lot of people to talk to, and gear to set up/take down, so don't give either of them a whole lot of time.

It's one hell of a rush when two girls your dating show up at the same location.

 

[MightyMate]

I woudlnt invite any of them and tell each of them the next day i had the concert.. Btw.. Ive done that a few times when i was less known. Im also an aritst.

 

[LJC]

You're not juggling two women here because, by the sound of your post, it doesn't appear that you've banged either one of these girls or even took them out on a date yet. Saying your juggling these two women is like saying your trying to keep friends from knowing you have other friends. Don't sweat it, even if they both show.

 

[##17]

Good way of handling it: Say to both of them "We're playing tomorrow night at Jillian's. You should come watch us." If they both show, treat each as another friend.

PS: I KNOW there are guys in here, or at least somewhere, who would be very good at parlaying these situations into a threesome and who could give a GREAT way of handling a situation like this. I'd be interested in how they would answer.