Experimenting mode on

[lizardking82]

I just told two different girls to "give me a shout and let's grab some drinks and continue this conversation there", something I had not done before ever. I am thinking of telling this women the favourite tactic of @bigneil to "I think we should just be friends", but I don't know...I will experiment for a couple of communications now, try out things I have not tried before. See if there are some things to be learned.

 

[Serenity]

I've discovered a bunch of things doing this, experiment mode is pretty much "I'm ready to fail" mode. But when you make up and try new ways you might figure a way that very few or nobody else uses, which would make you original and have an advantage over the common techniques.

I had some pretty crazy ideas too, kinda to see how far I can go and still succeed. It's pretty fun when it works, but no disappointment if it doesn't because I never expected it to work.

 

[wifehunter]

Mirror...every obstacle, a woman has put in your path, can be used as a tool.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Weird. I never really plan anything as such. Usually just freestyle. It's far better (for me) when it just flows naturally. You can experiment all you want in that frame.

The only thing I say regularly are openers; how's your night/weekend, where have you been before here and let the flow happen.

If someone isn't inspiring me to facilitate the conversation, it's a good indication to end it.