"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Experiment #1

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Here we are guys, I said I'd be throwing out some experiments and my first test subject is in - the girl that pulled the "Maybe after him" stunt, oh, I'm going to have so much fvcking fun with this one (Hopefully.) and see if she's ready to jump through my hoops, Of course, I need some test suggestions to set up the hoops.

Anyways, I fished her today after I heard she dumped her BF (AND ON VALENTINES DAY OF ALL THINGS, OH, HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA) with a simple text.
Me: Hey
Her: Yo yo, how's it going boyo. (She normally used to say hi, so interesting response to say the least, I've been out of contact with her for a month.)
My planned response (tomorrow): I've been really busy lately.
No questions
no reason for her to continue speaking
I'm amused to see how this goes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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To make it clear, I have no intentions on wasting effort on this girl and don't want her, I just want to have a little fun.

Edit: Also, what's with the whole "Nextism" thing? The whole fvcking point of being a DJ is that we are willing to completely crash and burn if it means an attempt at our goals.
Cut me a thousand times, I'll stand up one thousand times. If I've got a point to prove, I'll be damned if I ain't proving it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Me: Been really busy
Her: Lolo you should so totally come to magic tomoz. I can flog you with my deck.
(yeah, it's a nerdy TCG event that I used to attend, haven't gone for ages :p)

My planned response: Can't, I've got work tomorrow and gym afterwards. (I don't want to use that many words though, and I probably shouldn't say what I'm doing, Should I just say "I'll be really busy tomorrow"?)
 
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