"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Here we are guys, I said I'd be throwing out some experiments and my first test subject is in - the girl that pulled the "Maybe after him" stunt, oh, I'm going to have so much fvcking fun with this one (Hopefully.) and see if she's ready to jump through my hoops, Of course, I need some test suggestions to set up the hoops.

Anyways, I fished her today after I heard she dumped her BF (AND ON VALENTINES DAY OF ALL THINGS, OH, HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA) with a simple text.
Me: Hey
Her: Yo yo, how's it going boyo. (She normally used to say hi, so interesting response to say the least, I've been out of contact with her for a month.)
My planned response (tomorrow): I've been really busy lately.
No questions
no reason for her to continue speaking
I'm amused to see how this goes.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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To make it clear, I have no intentions on wasting effort on this girl and don't want her, I just want to have a little fun.

Edit: Also, what's with the whole "Nextism" thing? The whole fvcking point of being a DJ is that we are willing to completely crash and burn if it means an attempt at our goals.
Cut me a thousand times, I'll stand up one thousand times. If I've got a point to prove, I'll be damned if I ain't proving it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Me: Been really busy
Her: Lolo you should so totally come to magic tomoz. I can flog you with my deck.
(yeah, it's a nerdy TCG event that I used to attend, haven't gone for ages :p)

My planned response: Can't, I've got work tomorrow and gym afterwards. (I don't want to use that many words though, and I probably shouldn't say what I'm doing, Should I just say "I'll be really busy tomorrow"?)
 
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