"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Experiment #1

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Here we are guys, I said I'd be throwing out some experiments and my first test subject is in - the girl that pulled the "Maybe after him" stunt, oh, I'm going to have so much fvcking fun with this one (Hopefully.) and see if she's ready to jump through my hoops, Of course, I need some test suggestions to set up the hoops.

Anyways, I fished her today after I heard she dumped her BF (AND ON VALENTINES DAY OF ALL THINGS, OH, HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA) with a simple text.
Me: Hey
Her: Yo yo, how's it going boyo. (She normally used to say hi, so interesting response to say the least, I've been out of contact with her for a month.)
My planned response (tomorrow): I've been really busy lately.
No questions
no reason for her to continue speaking
I'm amused to see how this goes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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To make it clear, I have no intentions on wasting effort on this girl and don't want her, I just want to have a little fun.

Edit: Also, what's with the whole "Nextism" thing? The whole fvcking point of being a DJ is that we are willing to completely crash and burn if it means an attempt at our goals.
Cut me a thousand times, I'll stand up one thousand times. If I've got a point to prove, I'll be damned if I ain't proving it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Me: Been really busy
Her: Lolo you should so totally come to magic tomoz. I can flog you with my deck.
(yeah, it's a nerdy TCG event that I used to attend, haven't gone for ages :p)

My planned response: Can't, I've got work tomorrow and gym afterwards. (I don't want to use that many words though, and I probably shouldn't say what I'm doing, Should I just say "I'll be really busy tomorrow"?)
 
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