"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Experiences with Hair Transplants?

Stoic

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 2, 2018
Messages
630
Reaction score
670
Age
43
Hey brothers,

Another thread mentioned this somewhat in passing (thanks to the brother that passed this information along), but I wanted to get more information.

What's been your experience with hair transplants?

First hand experience would obviously be preferable, but a close buddy's experience would be helpful too.

Here's what I want to know:

1. What company/provider/doctor did you use?

2. How did they do the surgery? Pull from existing hair on the back of your head or something else?

3. Was there a scar?

4. Are you glad you got it done/Was it worth it?

5. Can anyone tell you got a hair transplant?

6. How much did it cost?

Thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

DEEZEDBRAH

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 24, 2017
Messages
6,066
Reaction score
4,846
Age
36
I don't have the issue. Long blonde hair. Thick too. I don't shampoo. I use a conditioner. I eat healthy.
My grandpa had solid hair and lived till near 100. Just own it. If the time comes shave it and move on.
 

Lookatu

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 26, 2017
Messages
3,069
Reaction score
3,889
Age
53
Just bumping this as I came across this guy that seems to have a lot of info on his videos. This might give you some info.

 
Joined
Sep 11, 2020
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
Age
36
I did not experience hair transplantation but I was researching hair transplantation for a while. I think it may be a painful experience.:)
 

bat soup

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2020
Messages
4,209
Reaction score
4,701
Age
46
I knew a guy that came to my city to get a hair transplant and he told me it was extremely painful and they didn't treat him very well. If you go for it, be careful and choose a company with a good reputation rather than just going for cost. I think it works but personally I don't think the pain is worth it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Jor-El

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2020
Messages
418
Reaction score
505
Location
UK
Its not painful.maybe slightly uncomfortable for a bit.The needles at first is the worst part..after that,its more boring than anything else because its such a long procedure. Avoid the cheapo "hair mills".As with everything,you get what you pay for. if you are are going to do it,my advice is do it sooner,rather than later,the reasons being,the longer you leave it,the more hair you lose,the less your options are and the more it costs. Its one of the best things ul ever do
 

sid77

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2020
Messages
25
Reaction score
24
Age
53
Hey brothers,

Another thread mentioned this somewhat in passing (thanks to the brother that passed this information along), but I wanted to get more information.

What's been your experience with hair transplants?

First hand experience would obviously be preferable, but a close buddy's experience would be helpful too.

Here's what I want to know:

1. What company/provider/doctor did you use?

2. How did they do the surgery? Pull from existing hair on the back of your head or something else?

3. Was there a scar?

4. Are you glad you got it done/Was it worth it?

5. Can anyone tell you got a hair transplant?

6. How much did it cost?

Thanks
I had one done and made a HUGE difference in my SMPV and confidence level. I couldnt recommend getting one done higher.

1. Dr. Barusco in Port Orange FL.

2. Went fine. No complaints

3. There is a scar. Its avg in width. Not huge but not invisible either.

4. Yes

5. Not really. No one has ever called me on it.

6. Approx 10k.

*** The only caveat Id say about Dr Barusco is a lot of the follicles didnt survive the procedure. So X number of graphs dont equate to that many surviving. This is not a simple cost of getting the procedure, some Dr's do a better job during the harvesting process and dont damage the roots. Some dont. That would be my biggest complaint about Dr Baruscos team.
 

RickTheToad

Moderator
Joined
Apr 21, 2018
Messages
6,596
Reaction score
5,132
Location
Bridgeport, CT
Hey brothers,

Another thread mentioned this somewhat in passing (thanks to the brother that passed this information along), but I wanted to get more information.

What's been your experience with hair transplants?

First hand experience would obviously be preferable, but a close buddy's experience would be helpful too.

Here's what I want to know:

1. What company/provider/doctor did you use?

2. How did they do the surgery? Pull from existing hair on the back of your head or something else?

3. Was there a scar?

4. Are you glad you got it done/Was it worth it?

5. Can anyone tell you got a hair transplant?

6. How much did it cost?

Thanks
How bad is your hairline? Upload some pics
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Lookatu

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 26, 2017
Messages
3,069
Reaction score
3,889
Age
53
Just shave it off and call it a day. You'll never be totally happy with a transplant. Plus, they are not guaranteed, require a lot of upkeep and are very expensive.
That's the way I used to think too but upon further analysis, only the guys with chiseled faces and a good cranium can benefit from it. Otherwise, I'm going to guess you lose 1-2 points in smv.

Upkeep is a myth, especially now adays. I personally know 3 people that's had it for quite a few years now. They basically go in twice a year for touchups or checkups. It's true right after you get the procedure done, you have to use special shampoos and treatments for a few months to a year but otherwise very minimal after that.

Image doesn't really have a price for some and relative to how much one makes. It might be a difference between foregoing a couple vacations for some guys.
 

Who Dares Win

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2012
Messages
7,426
Reaction score
5,803
I'm planning to do it for the simple fact that my situation is not terrible, I would say 1000 units on my hair line alone would solve 90% of the problem.

In your case keep in mind that after a certain point you simply have not enough resources in your donor area to cover an empty head.
 

Jor-El

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2020
Messages
418
Reaction score
505
Location
UK
Just shave it off and call it a day. You'll never be totally happy with a transplant. Plus, they are not guaranteed, require a lot of upkeep and are very expensive.
Go to challenge this, they are expensive yes,but its a lifetime investment in yourself.You cant put a price on that....they do not require a lot of upkeep.In fact,thats the great thing,they dont require any.I mean,yes,in the early weeks,there is some ""upkeep" as in any surgical procedure.You have to baby it a bit until it beds in,use gentle shampoo`s,keep out of the sun,avoid lifting weights,but,this is literally until the scalp calms down again.3/4 weeks at most.After that,its normal hair,and you can cut it,dye it,style it,grow it,just as you would your ordinary hair.A wig requires a lifetime of attention...a HT requires a month.And looks infinetely better.Theres no comparison
 

DEEZEDBRAH

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 24, 2017
Messages
6,066
Reaction score
4,846
Age
36
Just shave it off and call it a day. You'll never be totally happy with a transplant. Plus, they are not guaranteed, require a lot of upkeep and are very expensive.
+1

It sucks that not every dude pulls it off like beckham. Judge law is a example of what no hair and a funky head shape is like. No harm in doing it if it makes you happy and you can approach again. If it will legitimately ruin life, you can't get past it, sure, transplant it. Personally I would shave or buzz it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

RickTheToad

Moderator
Joined
Apr 21, 2018
Messages
6,596
Reaction score
5,132
Location
Bridgeport, CT
Go to challenge this, they are expensive yes,but its a lifetime investment in yourself.You cant put a price on that....they do not require a lot of upkeep.In fact,thats the great thing,they dont require any.I mean,yes,in the early weeks,there is some ""upkeep" as in any surgical procedure.You have to baby it a bit until it beds in,use gentle shampoo`s,keep out of the sun,avoid lifting weights,but,this is literally until the scalp calms down again.3/4 weeks at most.After that,its normal hair,and you can cut it,dye it,style it,grow it,just as you would your ordinary hair.A wig requires a lifetime of attention...a HT requires a month.And looks infinetely better.Theres no comparison
I know dudes who've spent over 30k for transplants from the best rated docs in NYC. They have all had many issues and just had it removed, stopped treatment, shaved it off or left it alone. I can think of better things to do with 30k. Shaving one's head or a hat works really well. It might even give the dude some better style too.
 

RickTheToad

Moderator
Joined
Apr 21, 2018
Messages
6,596
Reaction score
5,132
Location
Bridgeport, CT
That's the way I used to think too but upon further analysis, only the guys with chiseled faces and a good cranium can benefit from it. Otherwise, I'm going to guess you lose 1-2 points in smv.

Upkeep is a myth, especially now adays. I personally know 3 people that's had it for quite a few years now. They basically go in twice a year for touchups or checkups. It's true right after you get the procedure done, you have to use special shampoos and treatments for a few months to a year but otherwise very minimal after that.

Image doesn't really have a price for some and relative to how much one makes. It might be a difference between foregoing a couple vacations for some guys.
If one it bald up at top with a horseshoe, it can hurt. However, if it's that far gone, just shave it off. Unless you're going to spend five figures +, it's going to be a challenge. If there are still hairs, you can try ultra light therapy and propecia. However, again, if it's that far gone, you're throwing money out the window. This is why I tell dudes as soon as you see thinning hair, get on some topical propecia and 15% minox. One can usually reverse it.

Not trying to beat up on you dude. Just trying not to blow smoke up your butt. Shave it off, see how it looks. If you are a little chubby in the face, cardio is the answer (along with dropping most carbs). If that doesn't work, hats are a great option. I think getting a free opinion from a hair club is also an option. However, it's very expensive. Try the free or low cost options first.
 

Lookatu

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 26, 2017
Messages
3,069
Reaction score
3,889
Age
53
If one it bald up at top with a horseshoe, it can hurt. However, if it's that far gone, just shave it off. Unless you're going to spend five figures +, it's going to be a challenge. If there are still hairs, you can try ultra light therapy and propecia. However, again, if it's that far gone, you're throwing money out the window. This is why I tell dudes as soon as you see thinning hair, get on some topical propecia and 15% minox. One can usually reverse it.

Not trying to beat up on you dude. Just trying not to blow smoke up your butt. Shave it off, see how it looks. If you are a little chubby in the face, cardio is the answer (along with dropping most carbs). If that doesn't work, hats are a great option. I think getting a free opinion from a hair club is also an option. However, it's very expensive. Try the free or low cost options first.
I'm not disagreeing with what you say but everyone has their own preferences. Different strokes for different folks applies here.

Let me ask you, are you bald or thinning in anyway?

I often see people that aren't in certain situations and won't be, advocating things from an outside perspective that is different as they haven't experienced it to form a certain sensitivity or deeper thoughts around it. My $.02
 

RickTheToad

Moderator
Joined
Apr 21, 2018
Messages
6,596
Reaction score
5,132
Location
Bridgeport, CT
I'm not disagreeing with what you say but everyone has their own preferences. Different strokes for different folks applies here.

Let me ask you, are you bald or thinning in anyway?

I often see people that aren't in certain situations and won't be, advocating things from an outside perspective that is different as they haven't experienced it to form a certain sensitivity or deeper thoughts around it. My $.02
Yes, I was balding in the front and crown, both sides. I started using topical finasteride and 10% minox along with light therapy and a concentrated Vitamin E supplement. It took awhile, but I reversed 98% of it. I posted pics of me a while back. I also posted the items I used in order to successfully reverse the hair loss.
 

Lookatu

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 26, 2017
Messages
3,069
Reaction score
3,889
Age
53
Yes, I was balding in the front and crown, both sides. I started using topical finasteride and 10% minox along with light therapy and a concentrated Vitamin E supplement. It took awhile, but I reversed 98% of it. I posted pics of me a while back. I also posted the items I used in order to successfully reverse the hair loss.
Man, lucky you. Can you post it again or post the link to it?
Also care to detail your methods for everyone else too?
Only thing with that is, don't you have to keep using it or you'll lose it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top