"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Experienced PUA Wondering About The Shifting Meta

ThunderCock

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Hey DJ's. Long time no see. I've been busy doing my usual thing, needed to stop by though just to get an opinion on something. I'm already an experienced PUA, so I'm not really looking for the main stream advice here just opinions from well known guys.

Has anybody else noticed a shift in the "Meta" of picking up chicks within the last I'd say two years that seem more significant then the last six years put together? I'm trying to figure this one out before the new fad comes in, (Which I feel it will anytime now) Some things I'm noticing;
- Women are rarely staying in long term relationships, (Then there is the minority that won't budge)
- More chicks are flaking on dates or being inconsistent, (If I have a date set up for Friday they will do a no show, bang another guy then phone me up on Sunday for example)
- Less chicks at clubs but more chicks at desert places

These are the ideas off the top of my head but wondering what you experienced players think.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think this depends on the area. For the last 20 years i was living in Greece ,Germany and Switzerland and in each of these countries the girls were quite different . The harder ones were in Greece, they are very cold but very loyal at you when you get rid of their b!tch shield. In Switzerland and in Germany they are almost the same , more easier to obtain but in some situations harder to keep them.

To get better at this is keep on trying al them time and build up a solid experience to avoid all the traps.
In our time chicks are easier to get than 40-50 years ago .
 
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I think it who you're around.

It's possible that all the instant media, etc is shifting things.

Nobody 'needs' to be with somebody or anybody these days. That's been going on since at least the 60s. So it depends on what you want and maybe want to put up with.
 

ubercat

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Social media has certainly been bad for their manners and their ability to delay gratification. If you think about it it makes every girl into a movie star she can have her pictures liked by hundreds of people and her followers r like her PR agents.

Of course her friendsters won't be there when times are hard but most women are fickle by Nature so that doesn't bother them.

I'm doing o l d at the moment because it's easy for me to generate my target of one date a week just to keep my hand I while I m busy with my objectives in life. Last time I did OLD was 10 years ago and the chicks certainly have got ruder. They do flake without sending texts. You can pay for everything on a date and they are obviously having a great time but you never hear from them again ie they got a better offer. There's a lot more attention whoring with just wanting guys to stroke their egos and send them dozens of messages and never actually meet up.

So I think that screening hard and plating just like Tic Tac said is essential because there's more human waste these days.
 
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There's one interesting thing I've noticed after being on FB for a few years. Things seem to come in waves. People seem to generally get involved in LTRs at the same time, and they also seem to get out of them at the same time. I don't know if this is a lunar or seasonal thing, but people seem to align with each other with regards to "love".
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OLD is crap. Clubs are crap filled with ugly women and beta males. I wish I could be at the beach more but I'm inland.

The best girls I know of are college aged women. They haven't let attention get to their head and are way more fun in bed than 30's women. Yes some are addicted to their phones but they don't care that much about how much money you have. They just want entertainment.
 

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my experiences have been different. i've recently had girls wanting to be my GF very quickly, but i've recently gotten myself into shape. the girls are liking me...i dont follow any rules, i just act myself
 

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There's one interesting thing I've noticed after being on FB for a few years. Things seem to come in waves. People seem to generally get involved in LTRs at the same time, and they also seem to get out of them at the same time. I don't know if this is a lunar or seasonal thing, but people seem to align with each other with regards to "love".
IT'S THE MATING SEASON AGAIN!!!!! (Doesnt this actually exist?)
 

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Social media has certainly been bad for their manners and their ability to delay gratification. If you think about it it makes every girl into a movie star she can have her pictures liked by hundreds of people and her followers r like her PR agents.

Of course her friendsters won't be there when times are hard but most women are fickle by Nature so that doesn't bother them.

I'm doing o l d at the moment because it's easy for me to generate my target of one date a week just to keep my hand I while I m busy with my objectives in life. Last time I did OLD was 10 years ago and the chicks certainly have got ruder. They do flake without sending texts. You can pay for everything on a date and they are obviously having a great time but you never hear from them again ie they got a better offer. There's a lot more attention whoring with just wanting guys to stroke their egos and send them dozens of messages and never actually meet up.

So I think that screening hard and plating just like Tic Tac said is essential because there's more human waste these days.
I'm offended you even bothered to post in this thread, if the last time you did OLD was TEN years ago that is pathetic. I'm miles ahead of your game. If you can't handle a women friends with ease I wouldn't bother posting on a forum for game.
 

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OLD is crap. Clubs are crap filled with ugly women and beta males. I wish I could be at the beach more but I'm inland.

The best girls I know of are college aged women. They haven't let attention get to their head and are way more fun in bed than 30's women. Yes some are addicted to their phones but they don't care that much about how much money you have. They just want entertainment.
I tend to go to private clubs, private parties. If you are unable to game in those environments then don't expect to be pulling better results then people who are accustomed to those environments. You missed the original point of my OP which was to see if there was anything noticeable changing in game methodology...... Not what type of chick you preferred hopping on your ****.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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