"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Experienced PUA Wondering About The Shifting Meta

ThunderCock

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Hey DJ's. Long time no see. I've been busy doing my usual thing, needed to stop by though just to get an opinion on something. I'm already an experienced PUA, so I'm not really looking for the main stream advice here just opinions from well known guys.

Has anybody else noticed a shift in the "Meta" of picking up chicks within the last I'd say two years that seem more significant then the last six years put together? I'm trying to figure this one out before the new fad comes in, (Which I feel it will anytime now) Some things I'm noticing;
- Women are rarely staying in long term relationships, (Then there is the minority that won't budge)
- More chicks are flaking on dates or being inconsistent, (If I have a date set up for Friday they will do a no show, bang another guy then phone me up on Sunday for example)
- Less chicks at clubs but more chicks at desert places

These are the ideas off the top of my head but wondering what you experienced players think.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think this depends on the area. For the last 20 years i was living in Greece ,Germany and Switzerland and in each of these countries the girls were quite different . The harder ones were in Greece, they are very cold but very loyal at you when you get rid of their b!tch shield. In Switzerland and in Germany they are almost the same , more easier to obtain but in some situations harder to keep them.

To get better at this is keep on trying al them time and build up a solid experience to avoid all the traps.
In our time chicks are easier to get than 40-50 years ago .
 
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I think it who you're around.

It's possible that all the instant media, etc is shifting things.

Nobody 'needs' to be with somebody or anybody these days. That's been going on since at least the 60s. So it depends on what you want and maybe want to put up with.
 

ubercat

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Social media has certainly been bad for their manners and their ability to delay gratification. If you think about it it makes every girl into a movie star she can have her pictures liked by hundreds of people and her followers r like her PR agents.

Of course her friendsters won't be there when times are hard but most women are fickle by Nature so that doesn't bother them.

I'm doing o l d at the moment because it's easy for me to generate my target of one date a week just to keep my hand I while I m busy with my objectives in life. Last time I did OLD was 10 years ago and the chicks certainly have got ruder. They do flake without sending texts. You can pay for everything on a date and they are obviously having a great time but you never hear from them again ie they got a better offer. There's a lot more attention whoring with just wanting guys to stroke their egos and send them dozens of messages and never actually meet up.

So I think that screening hard and plating just like Tic Tac said is essential because there's more human waste these days.
 
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There's one interesting thing I've noticed after being on FB for a few years. Things seem to come in waves. People seem to generally get involved in LTRs at the same time, and they also seem to get out of them at the same time. I don't know if this is a lunar or seasonal thing, but people seem to align with each other with regards to "love".
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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skinnyguy

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OLD is crap. Clubs are crap filled with ugly women and beta males. I wish I could be at the beach more but I'm inland.

The best girls I know of are college aged women. They haven't let attention get to their head and are way more fun in bed than 30's women. Yes some are addicted to their phones but they don't care that much about how much money you have. They just want entertainment.
 

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my experiences have been different. i've recently had girls wanting to be my GF very quickly, but i've recently gotten myself into shape. the girls are liking me...i dont follow any rules, i just act myself
 

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There's one interesting thing I've noticed after being on FB for a few years. Things seem to come in waves. People seem to generally get involved in LTRs at the same time, and they also seem to get out of them at the same time. I don't know if this is a lunar or seasonal thing, but people seem to align with each other with regards to "love".
IT'S THE MATING SEASON AGAIN!!!!! (Doesnt this actually exist?)
 

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Social media has certainly been bad for their manners and their ability to delay gratification. If you think about it it makes every girl into a movie star she can have her pictures liked by hundreds of people and her followers r like her PR agents.

Of course her friendsters won't be there when times are hard but most women are fickle by Nature so that doesn't bother them.

I'm doing o l d at the moment because it's easy for me to generate my target of one date a week just to keep my hand I while I m busy with my objectives in life. Last time I did OLD was 10 years ago and the chicks certainly have got ruder. They do flake without sending texts. You can pay for everything on a date and they are obviously having a great time but you never hear from them again ie they got a better offer. There's a lot more attention whoring with just wanting guys to stroke their egos and send them dozens of messages and never actually meet up.

So I think that screening hard and plating just like Tic Tac said is essential because there's more human waste these days.
I'm offended you even bothered to post in this thread, if the last time you did OLD was TEN years ago that is pathetic. I'm miles ahead of your game. If you can't handle a women friends with ease I wouldn't bother posting on a forum for game.
 

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OLD is crap. Clubs are crap filled with ugly women and beta males. I wish I could be at the beach more but I'm inland.

The best girls I know of are college aged women. They haven't let attention get to their head and are way more fun in bed than 30's women. Yes some are addicted to their phones but they don't care that much about how much money you have. They just want entertainment.
I tend to go to private clubs, private parties. If you are unable to game in those environments then don't expect to be pulling better results then people who are accustomed to those environments. You missed the original point of my OP which was to see if there was anything noticeable changing in game methodology...... Not what type of chick you preferred hopping on your ****.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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