Experience with Pullback

[BJP1991]

Hold the line. Mind over matter. Be selfish during this time. Enjoy yourself and relax. When she hits you up do not be quick to give her your attention. Its really that simple. Its a choice. Frame is a choice and your life.

And how does one handle the date next week? Hit her up a couple days before to tell her when to be ready?

 

[Konada]

I hit her up a few days ago. No contact at all since then.

At this point what good does it do to text her today and confirm when I can just do that Tuesday, a couple days before the day we talked about? The suggestion seems like an unnecessary ping and a cry of neediness.

Part of me doesn’t want to reach out to her period, even to confirm the date.

What did you hit her up with?

You can either ping her now or Tuesday, it makes absolutely no f*cking difference. The fact that you are more concerned about how she views your text to confirm a date, rather than respecting the time you have set aside (which could have been used for something else), screams neediness.

 

[Old Balls]

There's some really good info on this thread, just goes to show that different things work for different people. That's why this whole thing is a game. Gotta find your style, and have a good time doing it. But then different girls react differently to each style, so there's that. It can truly be a crap shoot sometimes.

Plates aren't meant to occupy much time or investment to begin with. Plates don't spend many thoughts on us in between meetings. Unless you d!ck her down like never before on your meetings. Then you'd know when she's thinking about you.