"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Experience with laying female friends?

John_Taylor

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(penkitten don't read this.......It'll ruin your impression of me ENTIRELY)

I haven't posted since the beginning of time, I only use private messages lol.

Anyways, what's your experience with laying female friends? Not people in "friendzone", but you know, girls you know or are near your social network.

Usually, any girl I deal with is at least 3 degrees of separation from people I am close with.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Krassus

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Eh.. invite em over for a movie, put your arm around em, give em a massage, a kiss, then fvck em. :)
 

DreamyChick

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Krassus said:
Eh.. invite em over for a movie, put your arm around em, give em a massage, a kiss, then fvck em. :)
Dang...no wonder this guy is so interested in watching movies.
 

DarkChaos

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I doubt it works. I don't really get attracted to any women that I want until I've known them for a while, at which point we've been friends for a while and I'm not seen as someone to date anymore.

It's kind of an inescapable dilemma.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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