"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Experience with laying female friends?

John_Taylor

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(penkitten don't read this.......It'll ruin your impression of me ENTIRELY)

I haven't posted since the beginning of time, I only use private messages lol.

Anyways, what's your experience with laying female friends? Not people in "friendzone", but you know, girls you know or are near your social network.

Usually, any girl I deal with is at least 3 degrees of separation from people I am close with.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Krassus

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Eh.. invite em over for a movie, put your arm around em, give em a massage, a kiss, then fvck em. :)
 

DreamyChick

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Krassus said:
Eh.. invite em over for a movie, put your arm around em, give em a massage, a kiss, then fvck em. :)
Dang...no wonder this guy is so interested in watching movies.
 

DarkChaos

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I doubt it works. I don't really get attracted to any women that I want until I've known them for a while, at which point we've been friends for a while and I'm not seen as someone to date anymore.

It's kind of an inescapable dilemma.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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