"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I took the pic of an average good looking guy so to keep women interested in talking with me, and i keep a dj talking like i dont like to be friends to a woman, i love my liberty, no strings attached type of thing... and bam they tell me they love that kind of guys that think like that, the mysterious type, the bad boy. they would even get with me in the sack despite having boyfriends. this is strange, but it only makes me think that woman in general dont want to get commited, they only wanna have fun, no responsabilities kind of stuff

i think being a bastard with them , showing no emotions, no remorses, is the best way to go for me,cuz with my nice guy mode on i only suffered and obviously they like when u are mr BAD Guy
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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its not that they like Mr. BAD guy

more like: They like a guy who doesn't NEED them to live.
 

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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
I took the pic of an average good looking guy to keep women interested in talking with me
Sorry, but looking from your username to that statement causes a wave of irony to wash over me.
they would even get with me in the sack despite having boyfriends.
Until they saw that you look completely different from the fake picture you claim is yourself. :rolleyes:
woman in general dont want to get commited, they only wanna have fun, no responsabilities kind of stuff
That's called a "generalization". Look it up.
i think being a bastard with them ... is the best way
Oh yeah. You're on top of your game.
 

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People act very differently when they are online, there is no one judging them, there is no real intimacy when talking over MSN.

You'll get past this bad boy stage. It's a phase most aspiring DJs go through. I think it's necessary to find a balance between being bold and uninhibited and showing some of the nice guy traits. Being nice and respectful is not wrong and good girls will get tired of a guy with too much ego.

When you took a picture of someone else, did you do this because you are too ugly yourself, if this is the case, there's the place to start your improving.
 

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no i just wanted to know how she would react to an above average guy, like a model or something
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MSN is no indication of anything, people know its just words on a screen so they feel free to type anything. Someone proposed to me once, sweet help em with homework and act smart and you get married! :rolleyes:

As already mentioned, people act a lot differently online.
 

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Online, some people ratchet up the intimacy level about 5x from RL, and some downgrade it about 5x.

From my experience, the ones who actually act a little more aloof online turn up the best in RL. It can be a sign that this person actually expects to meet you and try for you, rather than remain anonymous, which is how many of the girls who spill their sex lives and fetishes online to you will remain.
 
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