"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Experience i made while in MSN Messenger

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I took the pic of an average good looking guy so to keep women interested in talking with me, and i keep a dj talking like i dont like to be friends to a woman, i love my liberty, no strings attached type of thing... and bam they tell me they love that kind of guys that think like that, the mysterious type, the bad boy. they would even get with me in the sack despite having boyfriends. this is strange, but it only makes me think that woman in general dont want to get commited, they only wanna have fun, no responsabilities kind of stuff

i think being a bastard with them , showing no emotions, no remorses, is the best way to go for me,cuz with my nice guy mode on i only suffered and obviously they like when u are mr BAD Guy
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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its not that they like Mr. BAD guy

more like: They like a guy who doesn't NEED them to live.
 

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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
I took the pic of an average good looking guy to keep women interested in talking with me
Sorry, but looking from your username to that statement causes a wave of irony to wash over me.
they would even get with me in the sack despite having boyfriends.
Until they saw that you look completely different from the fake picture you claim is yourself. :rolleyes:
woman in general dont want to get commited, they only wanna have fun, no responsabilities kind of stuff
That's called a "generalization". Look it up.
i think being a bastard with them ... is the best way
Oh yeah. You're on top of your game.
 

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People act very differently when they are online, there is no one judging them, there is no real intimacy when talking over MSN.

You'll get past this bad boy stage. It's a phase most aspiring DJs go through. I think it's necessary to find a balance between being bold and uninhibited and showing some of the nice guy traits. Being nice and respectful is not wrong and good girls will get tired of a guy with too much ego.

When you took a picture of someone else, did you do this because you are too ugly yourself, if this is the case, there's the place to start your improving.
 

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no i just wanted to know how she would react to an above average guy, like a model or something
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MSN is no indication of anything, people know its just words on a screen so they feel free to type anything. Someone proposed to me once, sweet help em with homework and act smart and you get married! :rolleyes:

As already mentioned, people act a lot differently online.
 

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Online, some people ratchet up the intimacy level about 5x from RL, and some downgrade it about 5x.

From my experience, the ones who actually act a little more aloof online turn up the best in RL. It can be a sign that this person actually expects to meet you and try for you, rather than remain anonymous, which is how many of the girls who spill their sex lives and fetishes online to you will remain.
 
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