“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Experience After First Sex
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The Sperminator
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I didn't have sex until I was a lot older. I thought it was a big deal until I did it let me tell you it's not that big of a deal. Once you do it though you become a lot more confident and don't try as hard to get it. I mean don't get me wrong I like it but it's not as great as I thought. It was like a domino effect though once I did it once it was easy to get more.
The Sperminator
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22 years old
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
The Sperminator
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This is just for all the virgins on here. Don't give up. I was the most pathetic afc ever. I couldn't get dates, I didn't even get my first kiss until I was 21 and it was because we were playing truth or dare at a party and somebody dared a girl to kiss me and she didn't even want to do it. Hell I never even went on a date. I spent all my time at home. Until this year I changed myself. I started observing what others did and started reading stuff from this site and now I'm pretty damn good. Still learning but my life changed this year. Now I get girls all the time. I go on dates all the time now and after my first time having sex I had it with like 3 different other girls in a few months after that. Now I have girls calling me all the time. I have one girl who even buys me dinners and even fills my gas up sometimes lol. So don't ever give up you can change. I did.
I.A.F.Y.B.
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My first time having sex I didn't cvm and was some what awkward. Yes, I wanted more of it. I wanted to get better at it and have more experience.
so, after you lost it, what you're trying to say is that... you are MORE open to the sex part.. meaning, yeah, "ITS JUST SEX" it feels good, I want it, but yeah, "ITS JUST SEX" no biggyThe Sperminator said:
? VS being a virgin,
Virgins, as much as wanted to do it, you are still somewhat scared because you might do something wrong ex: kissing part, date might make fun of your d1ck size, performance, cumming to soon????????????????????
War Against Betaism
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It's like The Sperminator said, it felt good but it isn't the ecstasy that its made out to be. There was this one time where I could have lost it much earlier than I did, but I was scared that I might blow my wad in like a minute cause I didn't have a condom and I didn't want her to think I was weak. Though when my first time did come, I was honestly like "This is sex?!" and lasted 15 minutes without a condom. Probably could have been longer but I was tired.
Sex is great but if there was an exact value I would pay every time I wanted to fvck, it'd probably be like $5 or $10.
Sex is great but if there was an exact value I would pay every time I wanted to fvck, it'd probably be like $5 or $10.
First time I ****ed, we went at it for a good hour. She was tired lol. Our sessions after that, not many, she lived rather far. Managed to go on for a good amount of time. My problem, I realize, is not having been out there enough, and not having an active enough life. Today, while going to and on the back on the train for school, registering, I saw like 6 hb's ranging from 7-9. I am in this situaition alot. It's social/approach anxiety. I mean, ideally, you want her to be all warm and receptive to you. But what if she's not?
I haven;t been making the changes I want too. I have given up too easily. I am going to make it stop. Sperminator, how old are you?
I haven;t been making the changes I want too. I have given up too easily. I am going to make it stop. Sperminator, how old are you?
The Sperminator
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I'm still 22 actually lol.
first time i had sex i was messed up on ecstasy (former raver) and i was alot younger than i should have been. only 15
really, after that it became less important, sure i love it and there are some chicks out there i'd give up red meat for a month to nail, but as time passed by and i had a few partners it just became something you do with someone you care about.
Don't worry about being a virgin, seriously. the stress is killing you and should the opportunity arise it's a nasty obstacle to overcome.
Another thing, when it comes to actually reaching sex, if it's too much pressure just tell the girl you're a virgin, by this time you'll probably have a decent relationship with her and she'll be understanding. (sounds strange but being honest really is the best case here IMO)
and for god sakes don't just pound her!
like frued said, the only abnormal sex life is none.
really, after that it became less important, sure i love it and there are some chicks out there i'd give up red meat for a month to nail, but as time passed by and i had a few partners it just became something you do with someone you care about.
Don't worry about being a virgin, seriously. the stress is killing you and should the opportunity arise it's a nasty obstacle to overcome.
Another thing, when it comes to actually reaching sex, if it's too much pressure just tell the girl you're a virgin, by this time you'll probably have a decent relationship with her and she'll be understanding. (sounds strange but being honest really is the best case here IMO)
and for god sakes don't just pound her!
like frued said, the only abnormal sex life is none.
War Against Betaism
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Hey Aragorn, I heard having sex while you're rolling is one of the bombest feelings ever. I heard that normal sex would be so insignificant without dropping a pill, is that true?
well... depends what you're after.
Raw hardcore "how the hell did my panties end up on the ceiling fan" and "where are my pants?" is usually what ends up when 'rolling'. Its great for awhile, but it's like having too much of a good thing, you want more and that's where i drew the limit. I'm not gonna be dependant on a pill for sex (at least not now when i'm virile dammit!)
Regular sex to me is something i want with someone i care about, depending on our mood, anywhere from wild "Oh god my **** looks like a pretzel!" to that soft making love style.
my raver days are long over, i lived and i learned.
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Raw hardcore "how the hell did my panties end up on the ceiling fan" and "where are my pants?" is usually what ends up when 'rolling'. Its great for awhile, but it's like having too much of a good thing, you want more and that's where i drew the limit. I'm not gonna be dependant on a pill for sex (at least not now when i'm virile dammit!)
Regular sex to me is something i want with someone i care about, depending on our mood, anywhere from wild "Oh god my **** looks like a pretzel!" to that soft making love style.
my raver days are long over, i lived and i learned.
"
Again,
A) After loosing your virginity are you WORRIED LESSSS ABOUT SEX? (not as scared as when you were a virgin because it was an unknown experience to you)
B) Seduction becomes a template meaning...
1. u ask for her number.
2. take her out, do the talking routine
3. get laid
C) How is your confidence level? how much did it increase
D) Did you loose your approach anxiety?
A) After loosing your virginity are you WORRIED LESSSS ABOUT SEX? (not as scared as when you were a virgin because it was an unknown experience to you)
B) Seduction becomes a template meaning...
1. u ask for her number.
2. take her out, do the talking routine
3. get laid
C) How is your confidence level? how much did it increase
D) Did you loose your approach anxiety?
KontrollerX
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Agree with Warrior.
after first losing my virginity I was on top of the world. Then sex didn't matter as much. It still doesn't to me. Some people are too obsessed with it IMO.
On that note I just had an amazing night of sex and drinking and feel fvcking wonderful, but tired.
On that note I just had an amazing night of sex and drinking and feel fvcking wonderful, but tired.
DarthAngel707
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So let me get this straight:
Since all the DJers don't care too much about sex we are only here to learn how to chat with women and not bed them since it's not a great experience anyway?
You guys realize that this "sex is not that great" will be an excuse the next time you are gaming and fail. The way I see it, sex is more than an experience, it is checkmate. You call the shots now. But if you're still playing the game with her, then you are still her LJBF boy.
Since all the DJers don't care too much about sex we are only here to learn how to chat with women and not bed them since it's not a great experience anyway?
You guys realize that this "sex is not that great" will be an excuse the next time you are gaming and fail. The way I see it, sex is more than an experience, it is checkmate. You call the shots now. But if you're still playing the game with her, then you are still her LJBF boy.