Ok, is thre a BIG difference betwen the regular DJ Bible and High School DJ Bible and does the training form the boot camp really needs to be done for 8n full weeks, i feel like i can complete it in 8 days. Try clearing it out for me.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Exmplain me 2 things about the DJ Bible and DJ Boot Camp
- Thread starter Alph
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well, everyone is at different levels. The bootcamp is made for total AFC's who have no idea what they're doing. Don't rely on it changing your life, you should have control of that on your own. If you think you can do it in 8 days, do it in 8 days, and if things don't work out, you've only lost 8 days, and come back and work on whatever you need work on. Good luck.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If you looked youd see, the high school one is purely supplementary and more concise, the most important posts in their opinion. The new age High school bible is more made up of posts from high schoolers and has more on social proof, etc.
have fun reading them
have fun reading them
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Haha, 8 days?Originally posted by Alph
does the training form the boot camp really needs to be done for 8n full weeks, i feel like i can complete it in 8 days. Try clearing it out for me.
Not with posts like We are in the same class and I think she likes me... HELP! you won't.
comic_relief
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Prove it
I would actually like to see you complete all the exercises on your own in 8 days and make up a field report on your experiences.
Good luck if you take the challenge.
I would actually like to see you complete all the exercises on your own in 8 days and make up a field report on your experiences.
Good luck if you take the challenge.
I still haven`t started with the dj boot camp when i asked for help, second it is impossible to read and do all of the exercise in 8 days step by step, i mixed 3 or 4 exercises all at once and so far i`m doung fine (not great but fine).
Well you may be able to do all the steps in 8 days. But thats not the point of bootcamp.
In bootcamp you do all your training in one day. Then you continue it day after day for a month. Thats the point of the Don Juan Boot camp.
You go to bootcamp to become a soldier. You do DJ bootcamp to become a Player.
Plus your not a Don Juan in 8 days, it takes months, no matter who you are. Don't expect to wake up one day and think like a Don Juan, act like a Don Juan, and be a Don Juan.
It takes practice, practice practice. After a while you don't think about it anymore. At this point you are almost a don Juan. You then find things to change in your personality. Then you just are constantly trying to change someone. At this point your a Don Juan. Of course its more complicated than that. But essentially its that.
In bootcamp you do all your training in one day. Then you continue it day after day for a month. Thats the point of the Don Juan Boot camp.
You go to bootcamp to become a soldier. You do DJ bootcamp to become a Player.
Plus your not a Don Juan in 8 days, it takes months, no matter who you are. Don't expect to wake up one day and think like a Don Juan, act like a Don Juan, and be a Don Juan.
It takes practice, practice practice. After a while you don't think about it anymore. At this point you are almost a don Juan. You then find things to change in your personality. Then you just are constantly trying to change someone. At this point your a Don Juan. Of course its more complicated than that. But essentially its that.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.