"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Exmplain me 2 things about the DJ Bible and DJ Boot Camp

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Ok, is thre a BIG difference betwen the regular DJ Bible and High School DJ Bible and does the training form the boot camp really needs to be done for 8n full weeks, i feel like i can complete it in 8 days. Try clearing it out for me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well, everyone is at different levels. The bootcamp is made for total AFC's who have no idea what they're doing. Don't rely on it changing your life, you should have control of that on your own. If you think you can do it in 8 days, do it in 8 days, and if things don't work out, you've only lost 8 days, and come back and work on whatever you need work on. Good luck.
 

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Yeah, on the boot camp it really depends on what level you think you're on. Take as much time as you need. The instructions aren't set in stone...
 

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8 days, have you read through the whole thing?
 

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Well i read 75% of it and i`v been reading it for only 3 days. And no one answerd me the difference betwen the HS Bible and the regular one.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you looked youd see, the high school one is purely supplementary and more concise, the most important posts in their opinion. The new age High school bible is more made up of posts from high schoolers and has more on social proof, etc.

have fun reading them
 

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Prove it

I would actually like to see you complete all the exercises on your own in 8 days and make up a field report on your experiences.

Good luck if you take the challenge.
 

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I still haven`t started with the dj boot camp when i asked for help, second it is impossible to read and do all of the exercise in 8 days step by step, i mixed 3 or 4 exercises all at once and so far i`m doung fine (not great but fine).
 

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Well you may be able to do all the steps in 8 days. But thats not the point of bootcamp.

In bootcamp you do all your training in one day. Then you continue it day after day for a month. Thats the point of the Don Juan Boot camp.

You go to bootcamp to become a soldier. You do DJ bootcamp to become a Player.

Plus your not a Don Juan in 8 days, it takes months, no matter who you are. Don't expect to wake up one day and think like a Don Juan, act like a Don Juan, and be a Don Juan.

It takes practice, practice practice. After a while you don't think about it anymore. At this point you are almost a don Juan. You then find things to change in your personality. Then you just are constantly trying to change someone. At this point your a Don Juan. Of course its more complicated than that. But essentially its that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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