"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Exgirlfriend is dating a guy who looks just like me

Imdonswanson

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Went out with a couple of friends last night and they started talking about my ex (I didn't bring anything up and I was the first to say "let's change the subject" )

They all mentioned that her new boyfriend looks exactly like me. They call him my twin, I find it a little odd.

Anyone else experienced this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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alxrose04

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Yep! And the funny thing is that I ended up being friends with him later on.

It's weird but nothing to really take offense over. She just can't get enough of you!
 

Cerwin Vega

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Happened to me before. Felt really awkward.

Your game-plan now is to improve in every way imaginable, show everyone she's hooking up with a downgraded version of you, an Eidolon per se.
In ancient Greek literature, an eidolon (plural: eidola or eidolons ) (Greek εἴδωλον: "image, idol, double, apparition, phantom, ghost") is a spirit-image of a living or dead person; a shade or phantom look-alike of the human form.
 
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