"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Exgirlfriend is dating a guy who looks just like me

Imdonswanson

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Went out with a couple of friends last night and they started talking about my ex (I didn't bring anything up and I was the first to say "let's change the subject" )

They all mentioned that her new boyfriend looks exactly like me. They call him my twin, I find it a little odd.

Anyone else experienced this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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alxrose04

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Yep! And the funny thing is that I ended up being friends with him later on.

It's weird but nothing to really take offense over. She just can't get enough of you!
 

Cerwin Vega

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Happened to me before. Felt really awkward.

Your game-plan now is to improve in every way imaginable, show everyone she's hooking up with a downgraded version of you, an Eidolon per se.
In ancient Greek literature, an eidolon (plural: eidola or eidolons ) (Greek εἴδωλον: "image, idol, double, apparition, phantom, ghost") is a spirit-image of a living or dead person; a shade or phantom look-alike of the human form.
 
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