"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Exes resurface right after breakup... coincidence?

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Hey guys,

Just wanted to share a coincidence and if you guys have the same one.

My exes are coming back in the picture.... right after a split up

9 months ago I splitted up of my LTR of the past 5 years...... The girl before my LTR aka Ex1... Ex1 added me on facebook the next day (after 6 years of not talking/meeting/fb) of my break-up and now invites me to her place, watch movies etc... I meet her boyfriend (she invited me without telling me of course) etc... Basically she wants my attention again.

So in 9 months got dates basically every weekend but only 2 managed to go further..... 1) Ex2 2) My oneitis

As soon my oneitis is over.....

Ex2 (girl before oneitis) write me back on Facebook the NEXT DAY (she deleted me etc...) and she start talking about her family issues etc.... (i ran away of her because she would write 500 messages to me a day and would ask my friends to tell me she wanted to talk to me etc...)

Often its written women can read you like a book etc... and its true but..... it happened twice in a row.... I never spoke or saw the Ex during my time with other girls.

You guys have similar stories and how you handle the after ?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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most yeah teh single status poping up really makes anyone who are interested start to show up, work for girls mostly though.

wonder if it was good or not spend time with exes though
 
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Oh forgot to mention...

Facebook/Status was never shown/changed... private setting so only friends see my stuff
 
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Lol no intention of going back... Just funny or scary the coincidence
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I had the same experience. Four or five girls ended up magically reappearing literally days before my ex broke up with me. All of these were girls I hadn't spoken to in the entirety of my 2 year relationship and none of them were even remotely part of the same social circle (one was a girl from 5 years ealier who I met when I was living 2,000 miles away).

I attributed it to some uncanny female instinct--it was like they knew before I did.
 
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fastlife said:
I had the same experience. Four or five girls ended up magically reappearing literally days before my ex broke up with me. All of these were girls I hadn't spoken to in the entirety of my 2 year relationship and none of them were even remotely part of the same social circle (one was a girl from 5 years ealier who I met when I was living 2,000 miles away).

I attributed it to some uncanny female instinct--it was like they knew before I did.
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Oh I had forgotten the russian girl who I meet 7 years ago one night. She started talking to me again online lol,............... Yeah its soo shady lol
 
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fastlife said:
I had the same experience. Four or five girls ended up magically reappearing literally days before my ex broke up with me. All of these were girls I hadn't spoken to in the entirety of my 2 year relationship and none of them were even remotely part of the same social circle (one was a girl from 5 years ealier who I met when I was living 2,000 miles away).

I attributed it to some uncanny female instinct--it was like they knew before I did.
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Its true, they have it. And they love the attention/orbit gravitational pull it provides.
 
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Somebody is Spying as JohnnyArrow says.

Also- please proof read your posts- the English was so bad it made me want to stop reading. Show the board some courtesy when you make a thread.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This has always happened, back before the internet and probably before telephones or language.

It's the Cosmic Vibe. That's why when you get dumped and then quickly go on a date with a girl who you have been rejecting for the past month, suddenly she doesn't like you either.
 
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LOL. You're overthinking this too much. This is the time right after Valentine's Day when girls start to look for old and new romantic relationships.
 
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