"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Exes resurface right after breakup... coincidence?

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Hey guys,

Just wanted to share a coincidence and if you guys have the same one.

My exes are coming back in the picture.... right after a split up

9 months ago I splitted up of my LTR of the past 5 years...... The girl before my LTR aka Ex1... Ex1 added me on facebook the next day (after 6 years of not talking/meeting/fb) of my break-up and now invites me to her place, watch movies etc... I meet her boyfriend (she invited me without telling me of course) etc... Basically she wants my attention again.

So in 9 months got dates basically every weekend but only 2 managed to go further..... 1) Ex2 2) My oneitis

As soon my oneitis is over.....

Ex2 (girl before oneitis) write me back on Facebook the NEXT DAY (she deleted me etc...) and she start talking about her family issues etc.... (i ran away of her because she would write 500 messages to me a day and would ask my friends to tell me she wanted to talk to me etc...)

Often its written women can read you like a book etc... and its true but..... it happened twice in a row.... I never spoke or saw the Ex during my time with other girls.

You guys have similar stories and how you handle the after ?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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most yeah teh single status poping up really makes anyone who are interested start to show up, work for girls mostly though.

wonder if it was good or not spend time with exes though
 
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Oh forgot to mention...

Facebook/Status was never shown/changed... private setting so only friends see my stuff
 
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Lol no intention of going back... Just funny or scary the coincidence
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I had the same experience. Four or five girls ended up magically reappearing literally days before my ex broke up with me. All of these were girls I hadn't spoken to in the entirety of my 2 year relationship and none of them were even remotely part of the same social circle (one was a girl from 5 years ealier who I met when I was living 2,000 miles away).

I attributed it to some uncanny female instinct--it was like they knew before I did.
 
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fastlife said:
I had the same experience. Four or five girls ended up magically reappearing literally days before my ex broke up with me. All of these were girls I hadn't spoken to in the entirety of my 2 year relationship and none of them were even remotely part of the same social circle (one was a girl from 5 years ealier who I met when I was living 2,000 miles away).

I attributed it to some uncanny female instinct--it was like they knew before I did.
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Oh I had forgotten the russian girl who I meet 7 years ago one night. She started talking to me again online lol,............... Yeah its soo shady lol
 
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fastlife said:
I had the same experience. Four or five girls ended up magically reappearing literally days before my ex broke up with me. All of these were girls I hadn't spoken to in the entirety of my 2 year relationship and none of them were even remotely part of the same social circle (one was a girl from 5 years ealier who I met when I was living 2,000 miles away).

I attributed it to some uncanny female instinct--it was like they knew before I did.
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Its true, they have it. And they love the attention/orbit gravitational pull it provides.
 
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Somebody is Spying as JohnnyArrow says.

Also- please proof read your posts- the English was so bad it made me want to stop reading. Show the board some courtesy when you make a thread.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This has always happened, back before the internet and probably before telephones or language.

It's the Cosmic Vibe. That's why when you get dumped and then quickly go on a date with a girl who you have been rejecting for the past month, suddenly she doesn't like you either.
 
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LOL. You're overthinking this too much. This is the time right after Valentine's Day when girls start to look for old and new romantic relationships.
 
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