"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Sasha
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I thought black italian would be a bit more.. black .... :crackup:
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Is this ment to offend me? If so you're making a fool of your self.
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oh hahaha yeh i get it. I dont play Sims I always thought it was for people who didnt have a good enough life in reality so they...........you get the idea.
Do you play Sims Casino?
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Do you play Sims Casino?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Casino what would you know about my sex life? Honestly to me it sounds like you’re a little jealous. This is what jealous people do attack people that are more successful than them.
Don’t start saying I attack people to. I don’t say "oh your gay and cant pickup" "I don’t believe you fu*ked a HB9" and sh*t like that.
So are you jealous? If you're not then what is it?
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Don’t start saying I attack people to. I don’t say "oh your gay and cant pickup" "I don’t believe you fu*ked a HB9" and sh*t like that.
So are you jealous? If you're not then what is it?
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hahaha, oh yea, dun dun dunOriginally posted by Sasha
I thought black italian would be a bit more.. black .... :crackup:
h2o
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hey Casino, i really like your other posts, but...it's immature posts/threads like these that make you lose your credibility on these boards...keep writing the good stuff...this post is just garbage
i don't agree with everything Black_Italian posts, but i don't see what you have against him...and i've also never seen him make a thread blatantly flaming someone else. hey, good luck with your new gf btw...would have posted in your thread, but i don't feel like it atm, and i'm logging off after this.
i don't agree with everything Black_Italian posts, but i don't see what you have against him...and i've also never seen him make a thread blatantly flaming someone else. hey, good luck with your new gf btw...would have posted in your thread, but i don't feel like it atm, and i'm logging off after this.
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this is low, really dam low. i thought we where men.
enough with it, its getting old really fast. BORING
enough with it, its getting old really fast. BORING
animal crackers
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hahahahaha that was funny
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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He doesn't look like a ninja!
That's not him... you lie!
That's not him... you lie!
Smooth Player 056
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Everyone needs a b u l l s h i t post once in a while
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Joe The Homophobe
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it seems that casino has a new name in this forum, "white italian" (nickname someone is using to make black italian seem gay)
That sounds ridiculous.Originally posted by Black_Italian
Honestly to me it sounds like you’re a little jealous.
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Open you're eyes man he makes a new login White_Italian, he makes posts flaming me, he says I always lie whenever i post a field report and he says I can’t pickup/sarge/mack.Originally posted by mrRuckus
That sounds ridiculous.
What does this sound like to you?
It’s exactly how a jealous person acts.
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Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
it seems that casino has a new name in this forum, "white italian" (nickname someone is using to make black italian seem gay)
Seem gay>?:crackup: He might be black Italian, but I heard he looks good in white.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.