"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Exciting dates

sloppyostrich

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Exciting dates?

A buddy of mine and I are pursuing two very attractive young ladies. Everything is looking great, me and him are both 18, and so are the girls. We have a slight dilemma, however, in finding exciting dates to take the girls on. We've come up with a few, such as taking them to a comedy club, taking them skiing (snow works wonders for kino and flirting) and taking them to a real haunted house in our area. Unfortunately, this is the extent of our list. Does anyone have any more ideas?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cloudtopsun2100

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picnic, going to a park and playing on playground equipment, mini golf, dancing, ice skating, swimming, rock climbing, dinner at your pad, amusement park.....I to would like to know more cool date ideas to actually...
 

sloppyostrich

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I feel that I haven't really stated what I'm asking for. As any DJ will tell you I'm sure, cliche dates are not good. Dinner and a Movie are not my idea of a date. My idea of a date, and hopefully the idea of many of you out there, is something exciting, allowing us to get in some kino, bust out some C&F, and leave the girls wanting more. Rock climbing and ice skating sound like a pretty good idea. Thanks cloud. Keep the ideas coming guys, I'm sure I'm not the only one who could use a few...
 

DJ_Dork

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Strip club...just cause it sets the mood.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AFCinBC

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Hey... Here is a concept... maybe the place isnt whats exciting about a date.. its the connection you create with the person your on the mother ****ing date with you ****ign ingrates
 

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call a dance studio, set up a private salsa lesson 4 the 4 of you. Find a studi that offers a free intro lesson, so u dont have to pay.
 
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