"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Exciting dates

sloppyostrich

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Exciting dates?

A buddy of mine and I are pursuing two very attractive young ladies. Everything is looking great, me and him are both 18, and so are the girls. We have a slight dilemma, however, in finding exciting dates to take the girls on. We've come up with a few, such as taking them to a comedy club, taking them skiing (snow works wonders for kino and flirting) and taking them to a real haunted house in our area. Unfortunately, this is the extent of our list. Does anyone have any more ideas?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cloudtopsun2100

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picnic, going to a park and playing on playground equipment, mini golf, dancing, ice skating, swimming, rock climbing, dinner at your pad, amusement park.....I to would like to know more cool date ideas to actually...
 

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I feel that I haven't really stated what I'm asking for. As any DJ will tell you I'm sure, cliche dates are not good. Dinner and a Movie are not my idea of a date. My idea of a date, and hopefully the idea of many of you out there, is something exciting, allowing us to get in some kino, bust out some C&F, and leave the girls wanting more. Rock climbing and ice skating sound like a pretty good idea. Thanks cloud. Keep the ideas coming guys, I'm sure I'm not the only one who could use a few...
 

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Strip club...just cause it sets the mood.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AFCinBC

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Hey... Here is a concept... maybe the place isnt whats exciting about a date.. its the connection you create with the person your on the mother ****ing date with you ****ign ingrates
 

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call a dance studio, set up a private salsa lesson 4 the 4 of you. Find a studi that offers a free intro lesson, so u dont have to pay.
 
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