"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Excessive Wealth and Being Famous is what really pulls the Chicks

Cod3r

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Better to achieve fame than money...

Money to me is like $350,000K/year, is that going to get Paris Hilton ?? No, but it sure will get Rebecaa the HB10 in my psychology class :):)

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If you're rolling in the HIGH millions or even billions than money is better, but if you're worth is in the 6 digits... ur better off with fame...


Mystery or bradd pitt ?? TD or Johnny Depp ?? Anyone who would argue for Mystery or TD or any of these other regular guys are living in a fairyworld. End of discussion, this is common sense


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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What's all the allure with women who are more interested in your wealth than your personallity?
 

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What's the need of acknowledging it, KoalaKing?

As I understand it, this board is about helping men do better with women. I don't really see the value of a thread that merely states the obvious toward that end.

A much better thread would be one on how to improve your appearance and/or go about working your way toward fame and fortune :cool:.

But really, as far as I'm concerned, Paris Hilton does not attract me as much as the women I've typically dated.
 
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True. But we don't have large amounts of resources (which is what women are attracted to) so we have to make due with what we do have.

Our goal isn't to feel bad that we aren't exactly what women want, it is to double or triple our effectiveness at using what we already have.
 

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I created a myspace account of a semi-famous wrestler. Women were emailing detailed sales pitches to throw themselves at him. It was pretty funny.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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