"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Excessive Wealth and Being Famous is what really pulls the Chicks

Cod3r

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Better to achieve fame than money...

Money to me is like $350,000K/year, is that going to get Paris Hilton ?? No, but it sure will get Rebecaa the HB10 in my psychology class :):)

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If you're rolling in the HIGH millions or even billions than money is better, but if you're worth is in the 6 digits... ur better off with fame...


Mystery or bradd pitt ?? TD or Johnny Depp ?? Anyone who would argue for Mystery or TD or any of these other regular guys are living in a fairyworld. End of discussion, this is common sense


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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What's all the allure with women who are more interested in your wealth than your personallity?
 

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What's the need of acknowledging it, KoalaKing?

As I understand it, this board is about helping men do better with women. I don't really see the value of a thread that merely states the obvious toward that end.

A much better thread would be one on how to improve your appearance and/or go about working your way toward fame and fortune :cool:.

But really, as far as I'm concerned, Paris Hilton does not attract me as much as the women I've typically dated.
 
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True. But we don't have large amounts of resources (which is what women are attracted to) so we have to make due with what we do have.

Our goal isn't to feel bad that we aren't exactly what women want, it is to double or triple our effectiveness at using what we already have.
 

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I created a myspace account of a semi-famous wrestler. Women were emailing detailed sales pitches to throw themselves at him. It was pretty funny.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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