"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Excess Hair

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Ok so I'm new to the forum and the whole DJ thing in general. I'm working on my inner game and confidence as much as I can but I also want to improve my appearance at the same time. I workout regularly but I have a problem.

HAIR!! :(

I've been cursed with a furry chest. It's pretty dark and abundant. There is some hair on my back but its nothing like my chest.

It's funny cause when I was a kid I didn't like taking off my shirt cause I was fat. I started working out but then I was hit with the Body Hair Truck hard so I still don't like taking off my shirt. Now that's ironic!!

I tried shaving but it takes a long time and i literally go through 3 razors. Plus razor bumps and my hair grows back quick so if I spent the weekend at the beach or something, I would have to shave almost back to back which is a bad thing. I'm afraid of waxing for the pain factor. Remember 40 year old virgin? I'm not that bad but I'm close to his hairyness.

Anyway, I was hoping some DJ's here had some tips to deal with this problem.

Thanks for reading my long rant.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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insanity

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i have a hairy chest and even a little on my back and my woman said she was never attracted to guys with hairy chests. thats till she met me. she said it just looks natural on me and would never want me to shave it. i play it off cool though. i grab a long sleeved shirt and leave a few buttons undone and put on my aviator glasses and she thinks i look pretty sexy.

come to think of it alot of girls i dated never had a problem with it. i guess it's just how you carry yourself. it's like girls with small boobs. they think guys want the big ones but once you see them naked it just looks naturally hot.

don't worry about it. your a man. men have hair.
 

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I shave my sh*t. I get a few girls that love the feel of it just after I shave, when its all soft and shiz.
 

Road Demon

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Just trim it, that what I do...every 1-2 weeks a good trim works.

Shaving requires alot of upkeep.
 

Skilla_Staz

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Eh, every couple days I just run a razor over it. At first, go with the grain, after about 2-3 weeks of doing that ever 3-4 days, then go against if you wish.


I do it in the shower, takes about a minute, tops.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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piranha45

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=90931

if a skinny little nerd like myself can wax his face two times over, im sure you could at least manage your chest. im not above waxing my face in the future, but first id need an actual girl to impress :p the facial hair starts visibly growing back around Day 10 though, and it took me about 40 minutes to do it the 2nd time (I did it by myself and thought I had it down pretty well), so I would say shaving is still alot more effective in regards to time, and that aside it doesn't hurt :p

I don't have much hair on my chest, but I've still waxed the hair around my nipples and navel several times; it really doesn't hurt, and its hard to beat the satisfaction of seeing that scraggly crap sticking to a gunk-pad rather than your skin. It only takes 5-10 mins to wax my chest, too. Yours would obviously take somewhat longer since you have more hair though.

40 yr old virgin really really exaggerated the pain.
 

SamoJednom

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ummm was that not the guys real hair they waxed in the 40 yr old virgin... I taught they said it was.... lol
 
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