"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Excess Hair

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Ok so I'm new to the forum and the whole DJ thing in general. I'm working on my inner game and confidence as much as I can but I also want to improve my appearance at the same time. I workout regularly but I have a problem.

HAIR!! :(

I've been cursed with a furry chest. It's pretty dark and abundant. There is some hair on my back but its nothing like my chest.

It's funny cause when I was a kid I didn't like taking off my shirt cause I was fat. I started working out but then I was hit with the Body Hair Truck hard so I still don't like taking off my shirt. Now that's ironic!!

I tried shaving but it takes a long time and i literally go through 3 razors. Plus razor bumps and my hair grows back quick so if I spent the weekend at the beach or something, I would have to shave almost back to back which is a bad thing. I'm afraid of waxing for the pain factor. Remember 40 year old virgin? I'm not that bad but I'm close to his hairyness.

Anyway, I was hoping some DJ's here had some tips to deal with this problem.

Thanks for reading my long rant.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i have a hairy chest and even a little on my back and my woman said she was never attracted to guys with hairy chests. thats till she met me. she said it just looks natural on me and would never want me to shave it. i play it off cool though. i grab a long sleeved shirt and leave a few buttons undone and put on my aviator glasses and she thinks i look pretty sexy.

come to think of it alot of girls i dated never had a problem with it. i guess it's just how you carry yourself. it's like girls with small boobs. they think guys want the big ones but once you see them naked it just looks naturally hot.

don't worry about it. your a man. men have hair.
 

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I shave my sh*t. I get a few girls that love the feel of it just after I shave, when its all soft and shiz.
 

Road Demon

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Just trim it, that what I do...every 1-2 weeks a good trim works.

Shaving requires alot of upkeep.
 

Skilla_Staz

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Eh, every couple days I just run a razor over it. At first, go with the grain, after about 2-3 weeks of doing that ever 3-4 days, then go against if you wish.


I do it in the shower, takes about a minute, tops.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=90931

if a skinny little nerd like myself can wax his face two times over, im sure you could at least manage your chest. im not above waxing my face in the future, but first id need an actual girl to impress :p the facial hair starts visibly growing back around Day 10 though, and it took me about 40 minutes to do it the 2nd time (I did it by myself and thought I had it down pretty well), so I would say shaving is still alot more effective in regards to time, and that aside it doesn't hurt :p

I don't have much hair on my chest, but I've still waxed the hair around my nipples and navel several times; it really doesn't hurt, and its hard to beat the satisfaction of seeing that scraggly crap sticking to a gunk-pad rather than your skin. It only takes 5-10 mins to wax my chest, too. Yours would obviously take somewhat longer since you have more hair though.

40 yr old virgin really really exaggerated the pain.
 

SamoJednom

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ummm was that not the guys real hair they waxed in the 40 yr old virgin... I taught they said it was.... lol
 
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