"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Excersises for bulking arms

jakethasnake

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 13, 2001
Messages
3,010
Reaction score
5
I have a natural ectomorphic build. Not extreme, but noticeably so. I have a muscular bod and a ripped but pretty slender and 'long' musculature. So naturally, I'm having trouble getting my arms more massive. I'm not shooting for some retarded Ronnie Coleman crap (that is fvcking nasty), but just a little heft. I'm shooting for Brad Pitt-plus 15 pounds, basically. I would be very happy with that, and am not interested in getting any bigger. In my opinion if I had bigger upper arms and forearms, I would have a bomb ass upper body.

But alas, all the dips, overhead triceps extentions, bicpe curls (barbell, dumbell) I do just get me more CUT, but not more massive. :( What am I doing wrong?


Note, I have a strong feeling that it is my diet... I probably take in about 2000 calories a day, sometimes less. But them again I'm not a big man at 5'9" 160 pounds or so. Is it my diet? Or am I plateau-ing in my progress and basically overworking myself?


Thank you in advance, guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

jakethasnake

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 13, 2001
Messages
3,010
Reaction score
5
Yipe..... I just decided to go over Diesel's Bulking guide for the hell of it, and the FIRST thing on it was his tirade about how newbs ask 'how to bulk 'X bodypart' and blah blah.... LOL! :p

My bad. But some more advice wouldn't hurt.
 

blackbirdbeatle

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 10, 2003
Messages
304
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Location
Canada
Weight

Dude the reason you lean and cut is that your body is using up all the fat because 2000 calories is nothing. Your actually trying to get bigger arms but your body thinks your dieting so you aren't making any progress. Try starting on at least 2500-3000 calories a day and make sure that 160 grams of protein is consumed per day.

If I were you I would stick to the dumbells as they are the best for working the arms. For the forearms I have this thing called a dynaflex powerball, basically a gyroscope. It generates up to 30 lbs of force and gives your forearms quite a workout when trying to keep it still.
 

jakethasnake

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 13, 2001
Messages
3,010
Reaction score
5
thanks man.
 

chim_chim

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 11, 2002
Messages
353
Reaction score
0
Location
Boston
EAT!

I'm a bit bigger than you at 5'10" 180, but I eat almost twice as much. I eat approx. 3000 calories/day for cutting and 3500-4000 when I'm bulking. Basically just eat as much as you can, if you start getting a gut then you know to eat less.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top