"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Excersises for bulking arms

jakethasnake

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I have a natural ectomorphic build. Not extreme, but noticeably so. I have a muscular bod and a ripped but pretty slender and 'long' musculature. So naturally, I'm having trouble getting my arms more massive. I'm not shooting for some retarded Ronnie Coleman crap (that is fvcking nasty), but just a little heft. I'm shooting for Brad Pitt-plus 15 pounds, basically. I would be very happy with that, and am not interested in getting any bigger. In my opinion if I had bigger upper arms and forearms, I would have a bomb ass upper body.

But alas, all the dips, overhead triceps extentions, bicpe curls (barbell, dumbell) I do just get me more CUT, but not more massive. :( What am I doing wrong?


Note, I have a strong feeling that it is my diet... I probably take in about 2000 calories a day, sometimes less. But them again I'm not a big man at 5'9" 160 pounds or so. Is it my diet? Or am I plateau-ing in my progress and basically overworking myself?


Thank you in advance, guys.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jakethasnake

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Yipe..... I just decided to go over Diesel's Bulking guide for the hell of it, and the FIRST thing on it was his tirade about how newbs ask 'how to bulk 'X bodypart' and blah blah.... LOL! :p

My bad. But some more advice wouldn't hurt.
 

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Dude the reason you lean and cut is that your body is using up all the fat because 2000 calories is nothing. Your actually trying to get bigger arms but your body thinks your dieting so you aren't making any progress. Try starting on at least 2500-3000 calories a day and make sure that 160 grams of protein is consumed per day.

If I were you I would stick to the dumbells as they are the best for working the arms. For the forearms I have this thing called a dynaflex powerball, basically a gyroscope. It generates up to 30 lbs of force and gives your forearms quite a workout when trying to keep it still.
 

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thanks man.
 

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EAT!

I'm a bit bigger than you at 5'10" 180, but I eat almost twice as much. I eat approx. 3000 calories/day for cutting and 3500-4000 when I'm bulking. Basically just eat as much as you can, if you start getting a gut then you know to eat less.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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