“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've got about 3 months before I need to go to college (Jan), and I don't have enough $ to join a gym. But I need to get in shape before my 1st year in college. ;)

I'm 158lbs (72kg), 5"8'
I've gained about 40lbs when I used to be in a gym (2 months). I'm still under-weight, so my future goal is to gain only another 20lbs (after I join a gym)

But in mean time, I want to concentrate on:
1- doing cardio (heart - endurance) by running
2- lowering my fat %
3- getting a 6-pack
4- Not gaining nor losing weight
5- Becoming fit and agile


I've started running 40 minutes every morning (6 days so far), But I need help/tips/pointers/links on becoming generally fit. All the threads I found seem to deal with gym work-outs, etc. But I need to do push-ups, pulls-ups, etc without messing up my body and not only that, but I need to have a daily routine. I don't have much time but I'll commit to it for sure.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Check out this link for some non weighted / lack of gym workouts

bigobb.com/ghetto.htm
 

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Press ups (Triceps, Chest and Shoulders)
Sit ups / Crunches (Stomach / Lower back)
Pull ups (Upper back / Lats / Triceps)
Chin ups (Biceps)
Upside down press ups (Shoulders / Upper back / Triceps)
Leaning Forward Dips (Chest / Triceps)
Straight Dips (Triceps / Chest)
 

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thanks, aolsuxs and Alex_L!

I should do all those after cardio, right? or before?
 

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Originally posted by m4a1
thanks, aolsuxs and Alex_L!

I should do all those after cardio, right? or before?
you shouldn't do cardio right before or right after muscle training,.for numerous reasons (such as the risk of muscle loss / and not having the energy too push yourself hard enough)...... make sure you do cardio either on its own seperate day or at the opposite end of the day i.e like 12 hours apart from training.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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m4a1

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I see, Thanks man!
 

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I agree.

I am on a 3 day split

M W F I lift

T and TH I do cardio / abs.

check out that bigobb.com site

lots of goodies there
 

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If you don't eat anything before you run you'll burn off fat instead of the caleries from breakfast. I'm not sure if you know this or not because it wasn't specified, but I thought I'd put it in there.
 

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I dont suggest that. You should always have something in your stomache when you run.

You'll burn muscle *and* fat when you do cardio in the early morning. How much you'll burn off on each depends on your bf% and the amount of muscle you have.

Check out HIIT cardio, too. I prefer that over normal cardio - not because of the 'you'll start burning muscle!' argument, but because you become faster and feel better after doing it.
 

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for those three months. do 20 push ups and 20 sit ups. every day twice a day. in the morning 20/20 then before you got to sleep. then as it gets easy add some more like 25/30 and so on. just make sure you do it everyday. no exceptions.
i gurantee you ll notice awesome changes
peace
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This may seem like a stupid question, if you think it's stupid, then you're wrong (it's an illusion):

What's the difference between crunches and sit-ups?

I thought I was doing sit-ups, but according to this link, I'm doing crunches.
And which one do you folks recommend?
 

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Sit-ups hurt your back and there is no need to curl above 40 degrees.
 

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m4a1 - where do u live?

If the weapon choice is partiotic, then it's the states.

Why not work for 3 days and pay for a gym membership?
 

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Ice Cold - Nah, it's not patriotic... Just been affected by Counter-strike lately, lol.
I live in Italy (trying to get a job since forever... it's hard)

Anyway, I don't think I'll need any bulking right now. I need to lose fat (I think I'm around 15% or something) and I can feel a six-pack, but it's not visable. :mad:
I was about 120lbs before, and I got 40lbs in just 2 months of working out and eating like a maniac, I can gain weight easily, but losing the fat is my primary concern right now, I suppose. ;) so after giving it some thought, I don't really need a gym right now... just cardio and sports.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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