"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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m4a1

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I've got about 3 months before I need to go to college (Jan), and I don't have enough $ to join a gym. But I need to get in shape before my 1st year in college. ;)

I'm 158lbs (72kg), 5"8'
I've gained about 40lbs when I used to be in a gym (2 months). I'm still under-weight, so my future goal is to gain only another 20lbs (after I join a gym)

But in mean time, I want to concentrate on:
1- doing cardio (heart - endurance) by running
2- lowering my fat %
3- getting a 6-pack
4- Not gaining nor losing weight
5- Becoming fit and agile


I've started running 40 minutes every morning (6 days so far), But I need help/tips/pointers/links on becoming generally fit. All the threads I found seem to deal with gym work-outs, etc. But I need to do push-ups, pulls-ups, etc without messing up my body and not only that, but I need to have a daily routine. I don't have much time but I'll commit to it for sure.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Check out this link for some non weighted / lack of gym workouts

bigobb.com/ghetto.htm
 

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Press ups (Triceps, Chest and Shoulders)
Sit ups / Crunches (Stomach / Lower back)
Pull ups (Upper back / Lats / Triceps)
Chin ups (Biceps)
Upside down press ups (Shoulders / Upper back / Triceps)
Leaning Forward Dips (Chest / Triceps)
Straight Dips (Triceps / Chest)
 

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thanks, aolsuxs and Alex_L!

I should do all those after cardio, right? or before?
 

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Originally posted by m4a1
thanks, aolsuxs and Alex_L!

I should do all those after cardio, right? or before?
you shouldn't do cardio right before or right after muscle training,.for numerous reasons (such as the risk of muscle loss / and not having the energy too push yourself hard enough)...... make sure you do cardio either on its own seperate day or at the opposite end of the day i.e like 12 hours apart from training.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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m4a1

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I see, Thanks man!
 

aolsuxs

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I agree.

I am on a 3 day split

M W F I lift

T and TH I do cardio / abs.

check out that bigobb.com site

lots of goodies there
 

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If you don't eat anything before you run you'll burn off fat instead of the caleries from breakfast. I'm not sure if you know this or not because it wasn't specified, but I thought I'd put it in there.
 

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I dont suggest that. You should always have something in your stomache when you run.

You'll burn muscle *and* fat when you do cardio in the early morning. How much you'll burn off on each depends on your bf% and the amount of muscle you have.

Check out HIIT cardio, too. I prefer that over normal cardio - not because of the 'you'll start burning muscle!' argument, but because you become faster and feel better after doing it.
 

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for those three months. do 20 push ups and 20 sit ups. every day twice a day. in the morning 20/20 then before you got to sleep. then as it gets easy add some more like 25/30 and so on. just make sure you do it everyday. no exceptions.
i gurantee you ll notice awesome changes
peace
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This may seem like a stupid question, if you think it's stupid, then you're wrong (it's an illusion):

What's the difference between crunches and sit-ups?

I thought I was doing sit-ups, but according to this link, I'm doing crunches.
And which one do you folks recommend?
 

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Sit-ups hurt your back and there is no need to curl above 40 degrees.
 

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m4a1 - where do u live?

If the weapon choice is partiotic, then it's the states.

Why not work for 3 days and pay for a gym membership?
 

m4a1

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Ice Cold - Nah, it's not patriotic... Just been affected by Counter-strike lately, lol.
I live in Italy (trying to get a job since forever... it's hard)

Anyway, I don't think I'll need any bulking right now. I need to lose fat (I think I'm around 15% or something) and I can feel a six-pack, but it's not visable. :mad:
I was about 120lbs before, and I got 40lbs in just 2 months of working out and eating like a maniac, I can gain weight easily, but losing the fat is my primary concern right now, I suppose. ;) so after giving it some thought, I don't really need a gym right now... just cardio and sports.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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