"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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excellent tip

FunnyCide

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It may get something started in a club because women are drunk and more loosen up but Saki is talkin about a street approach for which he has given an example. I'm sure its working % increases dramtically in a club but on a cold approach I still say it's a stupid tip. I wouldn't do this all night in a club either cause if you do it to one girl and she sees you giving the same line to other chicks than she'll know you just pulled some gimmick on her. I'd like her to think it was more of a spur of the moment thing to get her attention and that would just ruin it. Although I'm sure it could still be saved.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Derek Flint

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Yeah, I usually do it spur of the moment if some hot chick bumps into me from behind, but in most bars/clubs, no one more than a few feet away from you is going to hear what you're saying anyways.

Like any good opener, it shouldn't be overused.

And don't assume that the girls it does work on are "drunk" or have been drinking.

If the line is properly delivered, it will work well if the girl is cool and has a sense of humor.

I may even try it in a non-club environment sometime, but it has the be the right place at the right time.
 

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saki`s tip is good i use it alot now it really works especially in bars / nightclubs its good for an opener.
 

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saki,

I'm pretty sure it's been said before, but that a very good idea.

Props to you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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J-Man

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Originally posted by FunnyCide
Saki's story is still full of sh1t
this is hilarious... most of you...

how do you not see that hes kidding?

that, or hes a troll... you idiots... youre not actually believing this story is supposed to be at all true, are you?

for the few and intelligent: yeah, this is GOLD. no, PLATINUM :D :D :D
 

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Yeah, I was shocked anyone took this seriously and even claimed it works. Why do people need to lie? It doesn't help anyone...especially those gullible few that believe it and try the stuff out.

I thought this was too far fetched for anyone to take seriously, but I guess I was wrong.
 

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Re: Re: excellent tip

Originally posted by FunnyCide
How about just stop and say "hi"? Instead of doing a lame Mike Myers impression or is it the "Night at the Roxbury" impression you're trying to do. Doesn't matter both are lame.
Night at the Roxbury, rather. :D
Cheers.
 

wildchild

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Ive found this tip to work especially in nightclubs / bars if a girl even touches me i say this u get reactions like " would i do a thing like that " or " o sorry it was an accident" etc this is a good tip try it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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