I think this is so. She is kind of hung up on him.. but she does show some interest in me. But I'm sure if he showed even a little interest in her, it would mess up my game a bit.. basically how do I show her I'm the better man? I wanna show her a great time, but I kinda lack in that department, I want to be fun.. mature.. but still a little crazy and fun. I want to stay the "catch" and not lose it. I'm going to have lunch with her tomorrow, any tips?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Exbf has the upper advantage?
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- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Senior Don Juan
You should just make yourself scarce for a while, as she sorts out whatever relationship BS she has going on with her ex. It sucks to be the rebound guy - but if she has feelings for her ex he will always have the upper hand. Best thing you can do is GFTOW while they sort their shyt out, and come back when she is over this guy.