I think this is so. She is kind of hung up on him.. but she does show some interest in me. But I'm sure if he showed even a little interest in her, it would mess up my game a bit.. basically how do I show her I'm the better man? I wanna show her a great time, but I kinda lack in that department, I want to be fun.. mature.. but still a little crazy and fun. I want to stay the "catch" and not lose it. I'm going to have lunch with her tomorrow, any tips?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Exbf has the upper advantage?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Senior Don Juan
You should just make yourself scarce for a while, as she sorts out whatever relationship BS she has going on with her ex. It sucks to be the rebound guy - but if she has feelings for her ex he will always have the upper hand. Best thing you can do is GFTOW while they sort their shyt out, and come back when she is over this guy.