antidonjuan
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I've read about it but can somebody give me specific examples which a girl gives sh*t test to a guy? What lines are considered to be sh*t tests? Do teenage girls give sh*t test?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Examples of sh*t test?
- Thread starter antidonjuan
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ready123
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"are you hitting on me?"
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Yeah, duh! Do you not get it?
PrinceKong
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When the relationship gets serious and love is in the air. You will feel pressured to be sensitive, DON'T 
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
taiwanesedude227
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When she acts upset for something you did, which is not really that big of a deal. s*it test.
When she purposely tries to make you jealous. Thats a sh test too.
When she tells you something that she knows will bother you. Sht test right there.
When she does anything with the intention of getting a negative emotion from you. Thats the book definition of sh;t testing
When she purposely tries to make you jealous. Thats a sh test too.
When she tells you something that she knows will bother you. Sht test right there.
When she does anything with the intention of getting a negative emotion from you. Thats the book definition of sh;t testing