"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm definitely a big movie geek. It's also my major.
There's a plethora of alpha male characters in movies. I'm wondering which ones you guys look up to as great examples of ways to behave in an attractive way in real life. As in, they would be attractive to women even if they weren't good looking.

Just a few for me are:

Jude Law in Alfie
Jason London in Dazed an Confused.
James Bond (of course)
and my favorite is David Duchovny as Hank Moody in the tv show Californication.

Something all these characters have in common is that women are not a priority in their lives, except maybe the Alfie character, but he makes up for it with the additude of "If they're so many beautiful girls around, why would you only want one"
Also listening to some hiphop songs, for example lil wayne-single, really get me in the right zone for picking up chicks.
Thoughts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don Draper (played by Jon Hamm) in Mad Men. He's the Alphaest character I con think of off the top of my head.

It's hard to find a really Alpha character in TV and movies, because most of the guys writing the stuff are chumps.
 

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Galactus said:
Don Draper (played by Jon Hamm) in Mad Men. He's the Alphaest character I con think of off the top of my head.

It's hard to find a really Alpha character in TV and movies, because most of the guys writing the stuff are chumps.

I'll have to check that out.
It's true that a lot of characters on tv that are supposed to be alpha are not. However, there are still a lot. These guys writing it might be afc, but it's not hard to think of good lines when you're not actually talking to a woman. The rest is up to the actor's delivery and chasrisma.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How can fighting a predator NOT be alpha :)
Love Pulp fiction.
Alright bros, let's try to elaborate a bit more as to WHY these characters are alphas, such as mannerisms, dialog, attitude, etc.
 
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John Travolta in Pulp Fiction has it all, the shades, the confidence, the suit, the swagger and the composure.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Charlie Sheen in Two And A Half Men. He pretty much plays himself, but his attitude is dead-on.
 

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Frank T.J. Mackey (Tom Cruise in Magnolia)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My big three are:

Sylvester Stallone (full on masculinity)

Jim Carrey (humor/fun)

Robert Downey Jr. (irreverence)

They all serve a different purpose.

Stallone is the classic action hero. There are other greats, but he is the apex. The perfect example of the fearless, masculine leader who is focused, committed, and always in control. But the best part about him is that he is always the good guy. Our society today associates virtue with weakness and immorality with strength. Because the only people that seem to make any attempt to show any respect or do the right thing anymore are the AFCs (even if they're doing it for all the wrong reasons). Stallone is a reminder that you can be strong and moral. In addition to this, the guy is 64 years old and still in tremendous shape.

Jim Carrey might seem like a bit of an odd choice, but he's really a great example if you look at him. He represents a total free spirit who just expresses himself as the mood strikes him. He is not confined by ego or anxiety. And there is a perpetual element of fun to everything he does. Jack Black is like this too. I've actually found that going through my daily routine with a Jim Carrey attitude suddenly makes the most boring, mudnane sh1t tremendously fun. And women are drawn to fun like moths to a flame. Carrey's own record speaks to this with him bagging Lauren Holly and Jenny McCarthy.

Robert Downey Jr. is the perfect example of a guy that just doesn't give a fück. He is not concerned with social norms, people's feelings, or any unnecessary bullsh1t. He just calls it like he sees it and does what he wants and makes no apologies for any of it.


A lot of guys on here will probably cite James Bond, but I've noticed something with Bond. His level of suaveness really depends on who is playing him. Pierce Brosnan has that perfect C&F devilish charm. But Roger Moore comes across like a stiff, rigid, latent homosexual. So if you're going to go with Bond, be careful which Bond you're watching. Of course you can't go wrong with Sean Connery.
 
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I have a long personal list...

Steve McQueen
Charlton Heston
Clint Eastwood
Sean Connery
Hugh Beaumont as Ward Cleaver
Patton
Sam from "Cheers"
Fonzie
Rocky
Cool Hand Luke
Harrison Ford
Dean Martin
Bing Crosby
Gary Cooper
Burt Lancaster
 

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You want to see real-life alpha behavior? Watch the business leader stories on CNBC. When I see these men drilling for oil in 35,000 feet of water, putting millions on the line, organizing their command, and elk hunting in Montana, that is my inspiration.


But Connery is also the man lol
 

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Great great responses! Especially Nexus
I want to comment on a few:
-Charlie sheen in two and a half men great example. Exactly the kind of easy laid back attitude women love. Nothing affects him, nothing pisses him off.

-Chris Pine was perfect as James Kirk. Women love the genuine heroism he displays, plus he is ****y funny to perfection in the bar scene.

Again, what all these guys have in common is that their happiness does not rely at all on what a woman thinks about them, yet they are not *******s, they are CHARMING.
 

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Brock Lesnar (before he got his ass whooped)
The Joker (Heath Ledger)
Lex Luthor.
Wolverine.
Floyd Mayweather.
Al Pacino (Scarface, Godfather)
Robert De Niro (godfather)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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