Fellas, women do not want nice guys nor jerks, they want a real man. Now what is an example of a real man? In my opinion, Dr Martin Luther King Jr. is the perfect definition of a real man. He had a good heart, was a nice guy but at the same time, he stood up for what was right. Many guys think that you have to be a jerk in order to be respect. That is wrong. You can be nice yet still not be a doormat. A real man is someone who is nice but at the same time stands up for what is right and does not let anyone get him down. As I said, a true example would be Martin Luther King Jr.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Examples of a real man
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
johnny_chase
Don Juan
generalising women like that is not correct. Each women has her own definition of what a "real man" is, this is from social culture. Some women find MLK attractive, some dont. Ask every guy here what a "real woman" is, and each will give you a different opinion.
In fact, that's a good excercise. Everyone should sit down and list the qualities (other than tits and a$s) that they consider a real woman to be. You don't know what you're looking for if you dont have a clue about it.
What you mean, is women want the man that appeals to the natural women, the inner core of her. What that is, i dont know, no one knows, they just are it.
In fact, that's a good excercise. Everyone should sit down and list the qualities (other than tits and a$s) that they consider a real woman to be. You don't know what you're looking for if you dont have a clue about it.
What you mean, is women want the man that appeals to the natural women, the inner core of her. What that is, i dont know, no one knows, they just are it.
A real man:
- has principles that he won't compromise
- is goal oriented
- desires women but doesn't need them
- stands up for his friends
- cares about people
- treats all people with respect
- is sexually charged
- is not ashamed of his sexual urges
- knows how to love and to be loved
- won't take abuse of any form
- is chased by women
- is a gentleman
- is not a pushover
- demonstrates self-worth
- is well respected
- has principles that he won't compromise
- is goal oriented
- desires women but doesn't need them
- stands up for his friends
- cares about people
- treats all people with respect
- is sexually charged
- is not ashamed of his sexual urges
- knows how to love and to be loved
- won't take abuse of any form
- is chased by women
- is a gentleman
- is not a pushover
- demonstrates self-worth
- is well respected
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
johnny_chase
Don Juan
i think that's a pretty good starting list of qualities, good stuff.
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
I agree with LADawg.
KillingTime
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when i think "real man" I think THE man, Schwarzenegger.
Good man, but stands tall and is not afraid to speak his mind.
What he wants, he accomplishes
Very confident/****y & funny (esp. in his younger days, watch pumping iron)
Good man, but stands tall and is not afraid to speak his mind.
What he wants, he accomplishes
Very confident/****y & funny (esp. in his younger days, watch pumping iron)
It's also know that MLK had numerous extra-marital affairs. So yes, he was a REAL MAN! 
It's weird... but I already know that when I get married, I will have affairs. Seriously, this is so common -- you just don't hear about it nearly as often as it occurs.
It's weird... but I already know that when I get married, I will have affairs. Seriously, this is so common -- you just don't hear about it nearly as often as it occurs.
Miles Davis
Senior Don Juan
If you want to sleep around when you're married, why get married? Just a thought... you'll save money and time.Originally posted by wiggadude
It's also know that MLK had numerous extra-marital affairs. So yes, he was a REAL MAN!
It's weird... but I already know that when I get married, I will have affairs. Seriously, this is so common -- you just don't hear about it nearly as often as it occurs.
This is not being a real man. Where's the character in that? And rationalizing it the way you are doesn't make it any better.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Pick any great person from history. Chances are they had affairs. Seriously, watch ANY biography of a great and good person on the History channel, or whatever, and at some point their life will include one or more affairs. Sometimes it only is revealed after their death. For example, Charles Lindbergh, the guy who did the first Atlantic crossing in an airplane. He seemed so perfect, and yet even he had affairs, as it was revealed only recently.
Affairs are so common, even among supposedly "good" people, that I can't see anything wrong with them.
Affairs are so common, even among supposedly "good" people, that I can't see anything wrong with them.
Devestator
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Affairs are fundamentally dishonest and this makes them a failure of character. Virtuous men will sin from time to time.
Great men in history have had more temptation than average, so they had affairs. Average people would secumb to the vice more than great men if they had same the opportunity. It is like why the poor in America are more often fat than the rich.
We all want to be great, so we will have temptation to have affairs. Solution: Never get married.
Great men in history have had more temptation than average, so they had affairs. Average people would secumb to the vice more than great men if they had same the opportunity. It is like why the poor in America are more often fat than the rich.
We all want to be great, so we will have temptation to have affairs. Solution: Never get married.
Devestator[sic]
The poor are fatter than the rich because all the poor can afford is Kraft mac n cheese and MickeyDs, whereas the rich can buy healthy salmon and filet mignon. Its not because they are weak - that is a misconception.
The poor are fatter than the rich because all the poor can afford is Kraft mac n cheese and MickeyDs, whereas the rich can buy healthy salmon and filet mignon. Its not because they are weak - that is a misconception.
Oh, and why is it that great men are considered great even though they cheated on their wives?
Its because you are not defined by your sexual escapades!!! You are defined by your contributions to society!
The less you contribute, the more that your sexual history and habits matter as a character builder.
Its because you are not defined by your sexual escapades!!! You are defined by your contributions to society!
The less you contribute, the more that your sexual history and habits matter as a character builder.