So why keep is around though?. That i don't get.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Examples of a NPD' crazy logic or lack thereof
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So they need us to use as a punching bag?
Because that's how these npds treat the one they are close to, like a punching bag they despise.
Insane
Example: npd female is intimidated by other strong women.
This ex in 3 years declined every situation involving being around my 3 sisters who are attractive and fun and easy going. The one time around them , after years together, was very very awkward and quite and seemed uncomfortable in an embarrassing way. Like a little kid would be.
Npd is the opposite of a strong and composed woman.
This ex in 3 years declined every situation involving being around my 3 sisters who are attractive and fun and easy going. The one time around them , after years together, was very very awkward and quite and seemed uncomfortable in an embarrassing way. Like a little kid would be.
Npd is the opposite of a strong and composed woman.
Example: accused of being a cheater because I bought a new pair of tennis shoes for the first time in 3 years (brooks beast held up quite well) and wore those new shoes to the gym.
When i tried to respond with fact that i needed new shoes got the silent punishment treatment.
When i tried to respond with fact that i needed new shoes got the silent punishment treatment.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Example:
My son wrecked his 4 wheeler last July.
Had a traumatic brain injury, was life flighted to emergency brain surgery, almost died, was in a coma for 3 days following,11 more days in the hospital. On the 8th day in tje hospital we had to go back to the ER due to him going numb in his hands and mouth, ct scans and lumbar punctures and 7 hours in the ER. My ex broke things off with me because she said after the ER i was cheating on her. !!???!!!??
She appologized that day said she was wrong.
2 days later we can home diacharged from the hospital.
As a tbi ot he was 24 hour supervison , she wanted me to leave him with family and go to her house to swim 45 mins away. I saod no and she couldn't understand why and was mad.
What a ****ing CVNT
My son wrecked his 4 wheeler last July.
Had a traumatic brain injury, was life flighted to emergency brain surgery, almost died, was in a coma for 3 days following,11 more days in the hospital. On the 8th day in tje hospital we had to go back to the ER due to him going numb in his hands and mouth, ct scans and lumbar punctures and 7 hours in the ER. My ex broke things off with me because she said after the ER i was cheating on her. !!???!!!??
She appologized that day said she was wrong.
2 days later we can home diacharged from the hospital.
As a tbi ot he was 24 hour supervison , she wanted me to leave him with family and go to her house to swim 45 mins away. I saod no and she couldn't understand why and was mad.
What a ****ing CVNT
These Cvnts are ruthless.
Example.
After years together i learned my ex (who has a 6 year old daughter from another man) was a smoker and actually smoked through her ENTIRE pregnancy.
This is unGodly to me, i learned this after i loved her for a few years. If i knew when meeting her i would have never given her the time of day.
What selfish POS would do this when pregnant?
Disturbing
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
amos chapter 3 verse 3.
If u ain't on the same page you are at square one
If u ain't on the same page you are at square one
The npd refuse to be on the same page
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Right! Being on the same page would mean harmony...mit what a NPD wants.
Besides you can not be on the same page with someone who wants it their way or no way...and if you accept it their way, they want it anotherway just to see you suffer.
Today's woman only wants it their way. They don't get it they are out. Divorce 80% by women
Holy God mine was the same. Like all of a sudden a switch is flipped and something is wrong out of no where. Total change of mood and i could see it in her expression and overall stature. If i asked she got irritated more and more and was then mad at me for even asking as se was being weird.
One time we had a great day, walked at the trail by the lake and in the car on the way home 5 mins in i was talking about something and she just interrupted and said can we just drive and not talk anymore. I was like wtf?!!?? So i didnt say a word, home 15 mins later and she started talking to me and i said oh we are allowed to talk now? She got mad at me and made it like i ruined the day. Fukn psycho
Playing the field!
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Woohoo good good. I would've lost it before all this, but the bed thing I would have kicked her out immediately and said good riddance and went back to bed
The moment a woman tests you the first time and nags or starts rolls her eyes, it's literally the end of the relationship. Just gotta pick up on it and jump ship as fast as possible
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ya that **** was always ridoculous. I would tell her go sleep in the spare room. I nwver took any of her **** which is why tjere were problems. I told her she needs to date a ***** who wont stand up to her ****.
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Can you please link that, i can mit find it nor remember it anymore.
There is always a problem with the narcissist whether they need to nag or complain or cause a fight over nothing. It is as if they thrive in chaos we're piece makes them feel out of sorts.
We all have bad days however the narcissist has no self respect or dignity and just causes problems they are mean and horrible with that even the bat of an eye. It is unreal how heartless and cold they are and they could care less if you know it.
No sir I have moved on. A good point about being treated like crap. Sure putting up with it and sticking around seems like you enjoy it but that's not the case. More than anything you feel sorry for this person and they make sure to start all this **** after they built a good bond with you . They make sure you're best friends before coming out of nowhere with her torture and misery. These people are god awful they are Souless and have no heart they are full of black and emptiness. I would never hit a woman however these people deserve to have their fake souls ripped out of them and maybe their necks broke along the way. They are truly evil horrible and hurtful beings it honestly deserve to be treated like scum
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.