"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Example of a total AFC

I.A.F.Y.B.

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So my girlfriends mom meet this really "cool" guy. :rolleyes:
In the first 72 hours of knowing this guy. He buys her lunch, dinner, and a new cowboy hat then, takes her out to a movie. It gets worse...

A few days after he gives her $100.00 for her to go out and buy groceries. He says "Pay me back whenever you feel like it." :kick:

Then, the other night she calls up...we'll call him AFC. So, she calls up the afc. Tells him to bring a movie and pop corn over tomorrow. They both agree. So the AFC drives 30 minutes to get from his house to hers. When he gets there he starts to try and kiss her and feel her up a bit. Then, my gf's mom says "I'm not in the mood for company today. I feel it would be best if you just leave." The AFC puts his head down and says ok. So, he leaves the movie and popcorn for us but, has to drive another 30 minutes back to his house...

By now, a few days later. It is the weekend. So the afc calls her up asks her to go to the coast for the weekend. She says sure when? He says whenever your ready. They leave saturday morning. He pays for everything; the gas, cigarettes, food, hotel... Bearing in mind they havn't even fvcked yet. Then, they get drunk and my girlfriends mom tells him she still has feelings for her ex boyfriend. AFC's response? "Its ok, I understand completely." :crackup:

Now, your probably thinking she would break up with this afc right? Wrong, she is now USING him for his money. Even to this day he is still pursuing her. Gf's mom has mentioned already that the other night she got drunk with some guy and left to his house. He doesn't even have a probablem with her fvcking some other guy! In the next couple days he is gonna loan her $500.00to buy sh!t. THIS GUY DOES NOT GET IT. She has known this guy for about 2 weeks, maybe a little more. He is already talking about living with her and almost said "I love you." But she told him not to even say it... :nono:

Thought this would be an amusing post to write about cause I get to see it first hand haha. So, this should all prime reasons why you don't wanna be a AFC.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ChrizZ

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sadly it sounds like a "relationship" lots of men are leading. I once knew a guy who called my family to loan him 10,000$ to buy a horse because his girlfriend said she liked horses.
 

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that's really sad :(

You should anonymously email him the Book of Pook.

And you should consider dumping your gf because she's probably got the same horishness as her mother, only lying dormant. That's seriously screwed up the way she's using him -- and that she's telling you and her daughter all about it shamelessly!
 

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Obsidian said:
that's really sad :(

You should anonymously email him the Book of Pook.

And you should consider dumping your gf because she's probably got the same horishness as her mother, only lying dormant. That's seriously screwed up the way she's using him -- and that she's telling you and her daughter all about it shamelessly!
Why should he consider dumping his GF. Whether or not she has the tendecy's The op obviously doesn't have trouble dealing with his biitch as opposed to the afc with the mom.
 

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The guy is a simp no doubt... but

The woman is a very bad person. Why is the guy acting is simpish and afc? Because he does not know any better thats why. He is dumb, that's it. She is exploiting his ignorance to the max
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Obsidian said:
That's seriously screwed up the way she's using him -- and that she's telling you and her daughter all about it shamelessly!
good point
 

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Wow, it's crazy to hear stories like that. You'd think at his age he wouldn't be acting like this girl is the first girl he's ever pursued. I mean, we all make mistakes, but we did them in high school, learned and moved on. Seeing grown adults with absolutely no ability to gauge the interest level from the girl is just sad.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I've only met this guy once and her mother tells me and my gf about him. Today when I went over, I saw a dozen roses sitting on the kitchen counter. I asked, who brought these? The guy she is using brought them. I feel bad for the guy and want to tell him to find a different woman. But, I'm never around when he is there and I dought a guy in his fourties will listen to a young cat like me...
 
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