"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Example of a neg

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I saw a post on facebook of a neg hit and decided to use it as a joke in class.
This chick was sitting behind me and turned and said;

King: You are A B C D E F G H I J K
King: Want to know what it means?
Girl: Yes.
King: You are, amazing, beautiful;, cute, diligent, elegant, foxy, hot... I'm just kidding.

She burst out laughing and so did everyone in the vicinity.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's a witty joke, rather than a neg. Because she knows your kidding, you didn't make her qualify for you or bring her down a notch. The best negs are when she's not really sure you're kidding. Leave her guessing. Even if she's not guessing, at least you're showing your jerky/sassy side.
 
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