Hellomisslady
Don Juan
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So two weeks ago today I broke up with my girlfriend of one year because it was clear to me and many others that our relationship wasn't healthy and wasn't going to work... I've been doing great after the break up, I've been hanging out with friends and other girls and working on my own personal goals. BUT my ex now won't stop trying to contact me.
We didn't talk for the first week after we broke up, and then she started trying to get me to talk to her again. I ignored all her messages up until two nights ago when I finally just responded to one of them with "Some day hopefully we'll be able to just be friends, hope you're doing ok etc..."
That seemed to open pandora's box because at 1 am after that she sent me a 13 message long text about how she wants to stay friends and doesn't want to lose her best friend in all of this too, and told me to let her know what I think. I didn't answer, so the next day (yesterday) she said "answer my text kiddo!"
I didn't respond to that either, so 7 hours later she started sending me texts, 5 of them over the hour, telling me to contact her and let her know I was ok. I didn't answer until two hours later just because it was annoying getting messaged so much with the same thing, and all I said was "I'm ok."
She responded later with an essay of responses beginning with I've been a jerk the last two weeks because I haven't been talking to her, to a couple hours later apologizing and asking to hang out this weekend as friends and go do things that we did as a couple, as friends...
I obviously know that two weeks is no where near enough time for any of that to be appropriate, but I don't know if I should respond to her or not or what I should even say.. any help?
Thanks guys
We didn't talk for the first week after we broke up, and then she started trying to get me to talk to her again. I ignored all her messages up until two nights ago when I finally just responded to one of them with "Some day hopefully we'll be able to just be friends, hope you're doing ok etc..."
That seemed to open pandora's box because at 1 am after that she sent me a 13 message long text about how she wants to stay friends and doesn't want to lose her best friend in all of this too, and told me to let her know what I think. I didn't answer, so the next day (yesterday) she said "answer my text kiddo!"
I didn't respond to that either, so 7 hours later she started sending me texts, 5 of them over the hour, telling me to contact her and let her know I was ok. I didn't answer until two hours later just because it was annoying getting messaged so much with the same thing, and all I said was "I'm ok."
She responded later with an essay of responses beginning with I've been a jerk the last two weeks because I haven't been talking to her, to a couple hours later apologizing and asking to hang out this weekend as friends and go do things that we did as a couple, as friends...
I obviously know that two weeks is no where near enough time for any of that to be appropriate, but I don't know if I should respond to her or not or what I should even say.. any help?
Thanks guys