"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ex Still Bitter After 4 Years WTF?

Desdinova

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Duhh I totally forgot that... Brain fart.. Here is the latest one: View attachment 46

She is also saying that I called a friend's phone looking for her, totally a lie.
When my wife was cheating on me and I was in the know, I started looking around for things. I eventually came across a journal she was keeping, specifically devoted to all the 5hit that I was doing wrong in her eyes. It really made me shake my head at how she embellished everything and blew it all out of proportion. She had mentioned a few things in there that I had called her out about, however it always ended with a "but" statement followed by her justification for doing it.

Your situation is a bit different. This woman is wasting her time and energy on hating you, and has wasted the last 4 years doing it. You're racking up the points on her high score list and you don't even know you're doing it.

Congratulations on fvcking this woman up for all the guys she dates in the future :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You know what? I am so glad this is an ex. It means you made the right choice in departing the relationship. Could you imagine waking up to someone like that every damn day? Smile and be free.
 
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OP outstanding story. I know it's only your word on this forum, however Ill take it as read. In brief - excellent work on your part.
It's a shame you have to have any of her krap/contact/comms in your life at ALL.
 

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hmmmm I would be worried, I hope this just stays on blogs posts, but.... you do have all your things covered right? and how well you trust this person who send this to you?
 

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I am starting to wonder just how many claims of "abuse" are actually false.....
Plenty. It's used as a weapon and leverage, because they know a females word is taken as gospel. Of course there is real abuse too...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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