"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ex Still Bitter After 4 Years WTF?

Desdinova

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Duhh I totally forgot that... Brain fart.. Here is the latest one: View attachment 46

She is also saying that I called a friend's phone looking for her, totally a lie.
When my wife was cheating on me and I was in the know, I started looking around for things. I eventually came across a journal she was keeping, specifically devoted to all the 5hit that I was doing wrong in her eyes. It really made me shake my head at how she embellished everything and blew it all out of proportion. She had mentioned a few things in there that I had called her out about, however it always ended with a "but" statement followed by her justification for doing it.

Your situation is a bit different. This woman is wasting her time and energy on hating you, and has wasted the last 4 years doing it. You're racking up the points on her high score list and you don't even know you're doing it.

Congratulations on fvcking this woman up for all the guys she dates in the future :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You know what? I am so glad this is an ex. It means you made the right choice in departing the relationship. Could you imagine waking up to someone like that every damn day? Smile and be free.
 
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OP outstanding story. I know it's only your word on this forum, however Ill take it as read. In brief - excellent work on your part.
It's a shame you have to have any of her krap/contact/comms in your life at ALL.
 

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hmmmm I would be worried, I hope this just stays on blogs posts, but.... you do have all your things covered right? and how well you trust this person who send this to you?
 

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I am starting to wonder just how many claims of "abuse" are actually false.....
Plenty. It's used as a weapon and leverage, because they know a females word is taken as gospel. Of course there is real abuse too...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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