"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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eastside562

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After a break up we 1.5 days later we became friends. She keep calling and textin me more than before and getting mad when i dont pick up her phone. She starts flirting with me asking if im thirsty and says she have a dirty mind. Than i told her that i never ate any of my exes but the last night i spent with you if you wasnt sick i would have ate you out. She than ask if i wanted to come over tonight. I said no becuase you play too much and if you wont see me on my birthday this weds what makes me think you gonna let me see you tonight. She says i never said no or yes to your birthday.

Do you think she bull ****ting or she really did wanted me to come?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What do you mean you became friends 1.5 days later after a break up? We need to know what happened with the breakup. You shouldn't really have a need to even be talking to her after a breakup, all depending on the scenario.

All depending on what happened tells us why she is doing what she is doing. Everything you've written here is pretty irrelevant. She is probably trying to seduce you back into her life and depending on how it ended decides whether you should even be talking to her or not.
 

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Well we was getting serious than she had a friend hit on me to test my loyalty. I failed and she called me up to say ima a bull ****ter and i called her a psyco and ended it. Than i tried to get her back with no luck. After a day of no contact i called her.ended up talking
to her for a long time. She gets mad when i tell her ima call her but dont.
 

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Get over there & lick her out. :up:
 

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She wants you to come over, that way she knows she's still in control. It all depends what your goals are man. If you want to continue a relationship with her, get over there and work it out. If you're done with the drama just go NC. She'll probably try to keep contacting you for a while but just ignore it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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eastside562

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Well its my birthday tommarow, ima see her for dinner. Ima try my last attempt to get her back if that fails its no contact forever. I need advice on what to do and say. Last time i got her back all i did was act like her boyfriend and hug and kiss. But since i cheated and got caught i might need a different strategy
 

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She's an ex for a reason. Tell her to f off.

If you think about it, eating her out means she has power over you.

She probably contracted some STD and wants you to lick it.

If I were you, I wouldn't do it.
 

eastside562

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I doubt ima eat her out. I was just wondering if she playing games or is she for real. I dumped her off of pure anger from plotting on me like that. What we had was good and i want to see if i can get it back and how should i do it when i see her tommarow.
 

gravityeyelids

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Dude move on...she just wants the validation of being able to make you come back to her. Beat her at her own game and be civil, but next her and go find other BETTER women. Pretty soon you won't even worry about her anymore
 

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Its not worth it kid, and even if you do get her back, then what.. You live happily ever after and get married!? You got your whole life ahead of you, take it like a man and move on!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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