"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ex of 4 years..

Desert Rose

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Some info: I dated this girl for around four years. It was an up and down relationship to say the least. We broke up in the spring and we havent talked since then. A month or so ago she texted me saying hey, I didnt respond because of the way she left our relationship. She texted me again a few weeks later saying she misses me. I barely talked to her just to see what she had to say... she wants me to see her when I come home from college. I made it clear that I really didn't wanna see her so she came up with the excuse that I have her bowl and I need to give it back to her.

It was a mistake on my part to date this girl for as long as I did. I might see her to give her bowl back to her, and to bounce her titties around a little bit. I need some advice as I'm not too sure seeing her would be the best thing for me. She really is a stupid slut and all I would want from her is to fvck the **** out of her. Have you guys ever been through similar **** with your ex gfs? I've had a dry spell in the past month or so and she really is a good fvck but I dont know if I'd wanna deal with her stupid ****. Spin me some advice guys I'd really appriciate it!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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I doubt the sex would be worth it. Don't let her creep back into your life in any way. Tell her you thought about it but you don't think seeing her would be a good idea.
 

Desert Rose

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Yeah I've really thought about it in that way.. I think I'm strong enough to handle it and I know it would mess with her head a lot more than mine as I've already decided she will never be in my life other than a hookup. But on the other hand it is a lot easier not having her in my life period. Has anyone gone through something similar?
 

WC2

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The sex IS NOT worth it. I've had my ex of a few years creep in and back out of my life. It always ends up bad and leaves you pissed off in the end.

Tell your ex to move along.
 
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